It’s normal and expected to still be dating when you’re in your 20’s. People who get married that young are making a huge mistake, because you are still going to change as a person, and those changes could (and often do) spell an end to your marriage.
I agree that for many women who are single in their 30’s there is a lot of pressure to have children, but as time goes on, more and more women are choosing not to have kids. I’m one of those people, and especially thankful during this pandemic not to be stuck in the house all day with kids fighting with each other and trying to organize home schooling etc. Ugh.
Men who are still single in their 30’s (I speak from experience) are usually still single because they fall under one of these categories:
- neurotic
- mama’s boy
- cheap
- boring personality
I count myself as one of those people who got married later in life to someone who couldn’t be more perfect for me, and so thankful to dodge some of the bullets that came my way when I was younger.