ShilohDoesntCare wrote:
Uncle B wrote:
Great idea. Maybe they will kill him.
This had me laughing on the train dude. I did not expect that.
I saw someone else post something about the "glory days" of parenting when parents hit their kids more frequently not resulting in better parenting.
1. I think that parents back then became super-hands-off by high school, so less kids went to college (there was less need for a degree though...), so sure, overall parenting results didn't seem all that much more successful.
2. About zero kids back then acted like the one described here because they all had at least some healthy fear of discipline.
This kid needs discipline and structure in his life. What I said before wasn't meant to be mean-spirited. The parent in the situation described is unwilling to provide discipline, so the kid isn't going to learn discipline at home. Eventually discipline will find him when he pushes the boundaries too far in a public setting and breaks rules or laws. The military and/or boarding school suggestions here are reasonable. Discipline will be provided in those settings. The kid would be better off if the parent provided structure and discipline, but if the parent is unwilling to do that, discipline will need to come from somewhere else.