Markmiles wrote:
He's agreed to go and stay with his grandparents for a month to give us both some breathing space. As a single parent with a full time job it's incredibly difficult to juggle everything, along with meeting the needs of his younger sister.
Jesus Christ. He threw a can and broke a couple of glasses at home, and you cannot handle this? How does that even cross your mind as a problem? It probably cost like $3. That seems less serious than listening to music loudly on headphones in response to something frustrating.
He should live with his mom if you have this much trouble. You sound like the kid with a problem who needs parental help. Needing to leave and upturn people's home lives because someone broke a glass in an absolutely victimless effort.
You should go on a vacation if you cannot handle this, not him. Abandoning your family on something this small, I cannot imagine ANYONE will be there for you when you are older.