not pc wrote:
Last Friday my work had a holiday pajama party. This was the conversation I had:
Woman: Hey where are your pajamas?
Me: I don't have any.
Woman: Oh, come one, you must have something.
Me. Nope.
Woman: What do you sleep in then?
Me: I sleep naked.
Woman: Oh. (walks away)
I didn't think much of it. She did and went to HR. Now they are telling me this is serious and I'm getting a written warning. I never wanted to talk to her and she is the one asking me what I sleep in.
I asked my friend who is a lawyer what I should do and he told me not to talk to women at work.
Why is everyone so soft?
As someone who works in HR, I'd say it's less about "everyone" being "soft" and more about your own stupidity.
You did not have to announce to your female co-worker that you sleep in the nude. You could have just said that you don't sleep in pajamas and move along. But you decided to bring up nudity within the context of speaking with a female co-worker.
The fact that you think, in this day and age, that it is ok to bring up nudity (in any context) with a co-worker of the opposite sex really displays your clueless naïveté, at best, or your extreme stupidity, at worst.
It's definitely not the worst thing in the world (believe me, I've dealt with MUCH worse), but it's just using common sense.