I have had a number of instances in my life where groups that I was part of have turned on me suddenly. I'm a good person and typically do well in whatever I do. I can't explain why people do this. For example, I show up to a function of people I know and ALL of them give me the cold shoulder. It's like it was planned. My theory is that I am highly individualist but also social and people do not like the fact that I can get by very well on my own so they do this to either gain contraol and/or get satisfaction putting me down. Any ideas?