I’m a mid-20s guy currently working at a NYC investment fund. I love my job in a way I never thought I could love a job, and am well-positioned to make Partner in the firm / industry which is obviously long term lucrative.
My longtime girlfriend recently moved to a Tier 2 city (think large enough to have a pro sports franchise or two) and insists that I follow her along in relatively short order. My industry doesn’t exist down there in a meaningful way and I don’t like the city itself, so the only reason I’d be moving would be to be with her. She’s fantastic and someone I could see myself marrying, but at the same time I worry I’d be sacrificing too much to do it. I’m still young and social enough that I’m not overly worried about dying alone, but at the same time would I be an idiot to throw a good thing away for career?
LRC gurus, what would you do?