Should I break up with my girlfriend

Someone who knows wrote:

Of course dump her wrote:

Yes she seems terrible. She over drinks, smokes, lies, isn't considerate. She sounds terrible. Seems maybe she's attractive enough and that might be why you like her, but looks go away. Especially if she smokes and drinks, she probably has other bad habits and will be fat and ugly.

Dump her ASAP so you can move on with your life and eventually find someone else.

100% this. And I'm a woman.

No you're not

Is your girlfriend Emily Ratajkowski ?

If no -> break up

If yes -> break up and give her my number !

Fogrunr wrote:

They are both girls. Duh.

Luv2Run wrote:

Just read it.

Did you go into the women's toilet? Otherwise how do you know what they were talking about or anything?

Perve.

No l was waiting outside the bathroom because it had been 15 minutes, actually the other girls boyfriend/ husband was waiting outside too because he was worried his girlfriend was gone a long time as well. She was so drunk she was talking to everyone and stumbling around. I can just feel something is going to happen bad when she drinks,as she is naturally deceptive, but she becomes uncontrollable when she drinks stumbling around. This is why l figured if we went to the bar 1st then the movie, she would sober up before we got home, but l didn't know that the movie sold daiquiris.I don't like to be alone, so that is why l have stayed with her. She is not attractive in any sense, and has no money, or car, but l don't want to be alone and hot girls can be crazy too.

Regardless of your gender, I think you should follow through and dump her. All of your comments have revolved around the bad and negative things she has done or is about. Where are the positives? What is the benefit from staying with her, other than "being afraid of being alone" or "looking silly on Facebook"?

Over drinking, smoking, and lying all seem like detriments to you and are only making the matters worse. Relationships are not intended to be a "she/he is such a drag, OMG can you believe they got so drunk" it's supposed to be a partnership and guess who is taking you for a ride?

Get over yourself, social media is whatever and you have your whole life in front of you. Much better off to dump now and spend some time for yourself, either decompressing, improving yourself or whatnot. You will find someone who is better, usually, if one focuses on improving themselves and living THEIR best life, people will see that and love will find its way.

So you are saying you would rather be miserable than be alone? You should break up with her, but I think you have some of your own insecurities you need to work out ASAP

I am a male and l have a 10 year son, not by her, that she helps me with him, and l would have to deal with the embarrassment of all the people who would be like, "look did you see they broke up".