Would you date a girl who used to be a stripper?

Tater tots wrote:

new to this wrote:

I've been dating a girl for a few weeks. We met online. I just found out she worked as a stripper for six years starting when she was 19. She is 28 now. When she told me I played it like I didn't care, but it makes be feel a little uncomfortable. I feel like I shouldn't care and would probably tell a friend it's no big deal, but for some reason I don't love it.

If she has huge boobs then put a ring on it

Make sure to have a prenup tho

Women who go through several partners are very prone to psychological issues that get in the way of pair-bonding. They can't into relationships.

This woman went way beyond this: not only she laid in bed with 100s, maybe 1000s of men, but she quite literally objectified herself, turned her sex into merchandise for a good part of a decade. What kind of damage do you think arises from this?

I'd bet every single cent I have that she's not, can not be a good partner in a stable relationship. This is not like turning off a switch in her brain. You could give her a chance, but tread very carefully

What I’m getting out of this thread is that if a girl ever strips she should not plan on dating a man for the rest of her life.

Our President married one. If it's good enough for him.......well, leave it at that.

Can we get a name....for research purposes that is

The question is if she still does stripping for a living?

prude? maybe wrote:

Women who go through several partners are very prone to psychological issues that get in the way of pair-bonding. They can't into relationships.

This woman went way beyond this: not only she laid in bed with 100s, maybe 1000s of men, but she quite literally objectified herself, turned her sex into merchandise for a good part of a decade. What kind of damage do you think arises from this?

I'd bet every single cent I have that she's not, can not be a good partner in a stable relationship. This is not like turning off a switch in her brain. You could give her a chance, but tread very carefully

OP says she worked as a stripper...no mention of her sleeping with 100s to 1000s of men

sexy industry workers wrote:

Strippers, street prostitutes, call girls/call boys (escorts), full service massage workers and porn workers. All mentioned are considered Sex Workers. Over ten percent of global population as done one of the above. Most likely closer to 20%. Some people work as Sex Workers for one week in their life. Some are Sex Workers their entire adult life. As soon as someone as sex for money, even once, one is a sex worker. Ninety-nine percent who work as Sex Workers for a very brief time in their life never tell their spouse. Maybe you are punishing her for her honesty?

You are pulling those numbers out of your ass

I "dated" a stripper before....

...best 3 minutes of my life!

Seriously tho. Who cares?

Alan

This is a year old thread but ill bite. I hope you did the right thing and got rid of her

I think the problem is that stripping attracts obviously the bad women, but also the good women who get into stripping will become consumed by the industry and turn bad too if they decide to stay. It is a soul sucking occupation amd lifestyle.

making it up wrote:

sexy industry workers wrote:

Strippers, street prostitutes, call girls/call boys (escorts), full service massage workers and porn workers. All mentioned are considered Sex Workers. Over ten percent of global population as done one of the above. Most likely closer to 20%. Some people work as Sex Workers for one week in their life. Some are Sex Workers their entire adult life. As soon as someone as sex for money, even once, one is a sex worker. Ninety-nine percent who work as Sex Workers for a very brief time in their life never tell their spouse. Maybe you are punishing her for her honesty?

You are pulling those numbers out of your ass

Which he counts as "sex work."

I only date virgins

no unpure woman wrote:

I only date virgins

That means 90%+ of the people that post here are potential partners for you.

new to this wrote:

B1G wrote:

[quote]new to this wrote:

What does she do now? Did she strip to pay her way through college?

She is a teacher. I did not ask what she spent the money on.

I dated an ex-stripper for a while. She did it not long before we met, for a little over a year. Mainly I think it was a rebellious thing. She explained it and I could tell it took a lot of nerve and she wasn't proud. We talked about it a little and I knew it wasn't something she ever wanted to do again, so it almost never came up again and it truly did not bother me.

I have been in other relationships where i felt far more insecure and jealous after finding out about their sexual pasts, than I did with the girl who worked in a strip club. I'll tell you what.. dating a girl and having a previous friend-with-benefits text her in the middle of the night, and having her reply and make you wonder wtf they're talking about, is far worse than a girl telling you about a miserable chapter in her life she is not proud of and never wants to revisit or think about again.

I dated a stripper for maybe 6 months.. Long long time ago. We met at an Octoberfest. She saw I was not drinking and chatted me up.

Just enjoy it! Think of all the things you've ever wanted to do with a super hot girl and knock out that list.

Pick your date venues well. Bars, clubs, lounges, concerts and waitresses are not your friend.

They get way too much male attention for my comfort level. You will always be dealing with losers, cat calls, blatent disregard for your presence. At least I did.

It's going to be expensive. Man, I used to have a spreadsheet it was so expensive. She could never hold a job. Either someone mis treated her or propositioned her or girls got jealous, it was always something.

I would date a girl who IS a stripper