Would you date a girl who used to be a stripper?

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B1G wrote:

[quote]new to this wrote:

What does she do now? Did she strip to pay her way through college?

She is a teacher. I did not ask what she spent the money on.

Don't go shaking the whore tree and expect an angel to fall out.

Yes I would. Why wouldn't I?

Unrelated, but my grandmother once asked my middle school girlfriend if she was going to the school dance to "dance with the poles."

Apparently, it's an expression they used in the 1940s/1950s, about how girls used to dance by themselves with basement support beams, because the men were too shy to dance with them. Idk, but my date was intrigued by how liberal my grandma seemed.

Move on.... there's a problem, but the problem is you.

What's your intentions with dating? Only 2 things happen with any dating relationship, you either break up or stay together (long range, marriage, etc). If you plan to marry and raise kids, do you want a stripper to be the mother of your kids? Do you want your daughters thinking it's ok to become a stripper? If not, why date her?

sexy industry workers wrote:

Strippers, street prostitutes, call girls/call boys (escorts), full service massage workers and porn workers. All mentioned are considered Sex Workers. Over ten percent of global population as done one of the above. Most likely closer to 20%. Some people work as Sex Workers for one week in their life. Some are Sex Workers their entire adult life. As soon as someone as sex for money, even once, one is a sex worker. Ninety-nine percent who work as Sex Workers for a very brief time in their life never tell their spouse. Maybe you are punishing her for her honesty?

Calling bullsh*t

It would be a deal breaker for me.

On the other hand, my grandma worked as a stripper to pay for college and she and my grandfather had a long and loving marriage.

new to this wrote:

B1G wrote:

[quote]new to this wrote:

What does she do now? Did she strip to pay her way through college?

She is a teacher. I did not ask what she spent the money on.

OMG, that is so hot. Of course you date her. Just don't marry her.

BTW, is this your GF:

Free_the_thigh wrote:

sexy industry workers wrote:

Strippers, street prostitutes, call girls/call boys (escorts), full service massage workers and porn workers. All mentioned are considered Sex Workers. Over ten percent of global population as done one of the above. Most likely closer to 20%. Some people work as Sex Workers for one week in their life. Some are Sex Workers their entire adult life. As soon as someone as sex for money, even once, one is a sex worker. Ninety-nine percent who work as Sex Workers for a very brief time in their life never tell their spouse. Maybe you are punishing her for her honesty?

Calling bullsh*t

You just asked your sisters, your female cousins and other women close to if they are or were sex workers. You just asked a total of ten women. Less than 10% admitted to every being sex workers. Do some more research.

new to this wrote:

I've been dating a girl for a few weeks. We met online. I just found out she worked as a stripper for six years starting when she was 19. She is 28 now. When she told me I played it like I didn't care, but it makes be feel a little uncomfortable. I feel like I shouldn't care and would probably tell a friend it's no big deal, but for some reason I don't love it.

A bunch of drunk dudes have slobbered all over your girls boobs and ass for 6 years straight. Probably at least 100 dudes tapped it too.

She also definitely has some psychological baggage as well (daddy issues, sexual assault, rape, etc.) that's probably also paired with some form of depression/eating disorder. And I wouldn't be surprised if she had also struggled with substance abuse during that time.

Sounds like a keeper. She'll make a fabulous mother to your children.

So a stripper can't be a good mom?

100% of strippers are screwed up people. No normal person decides to do that for a living.

That said... they are kind of like hot dogs. You can go enjoy them without thinking too much about how they were made.

why not wrote:

So a stripper can't be a good mom?

This is not true and to the OP, I knew someone married to a stripper. Like they had a few kids and she is still preforming her trade even married. She is a very nice woman, don't knock it till you try it.

This is not true and to the OP wrote:

why not wrote:

So a stripper can't be a good mom?

This is not true and to the OP, I knew someone married to a stripper. Like they had a few kids and she is still preforming her trade even married. She is a very nice woman, don't knock it till you try it.

I also knew someone is a situation like this. They seemed like a happy family and the daughters were fine until they hit their teens. One got hooked on drugs and the other got pregnant is high school.

Stripper ok; hooker not okay.

But...we need pics.

Piano_Man87 wrote:

100% of strippers are screwed up people. No normal person decides to do that for a living.

That said... they are kind of like hot dogs. You can go enjoy them without thinking too much about how they were made.

Can you back up that 100% claim? Of course not because it is bogus.,

sexy industry workers wrote:

Free_the_thigh wrote:

Calling bullsh*t

You just asked your sisters, your female cousins and other women close to if they are or were sex workers. You just asked a total of ten women. Less than 10% admitted to every being sex workers. Do some more research.

I didn’t ask one, let alone those people.

How is this for research

In west Europe it’s between .1 and 1.4%