I'm Done. The Mezra death brought home how cycincal and damaging this website it to real people

Call it a day wrote:

Call it a day wrote:

I suggest the moderators lock this thread and let’s put it to rest. If anything notable happens in the future then a new thread and discussion can occur at that time.

My suggestion is an embarrassing one as I simply don't have to click on the thread, versus complaining and trying to get something locked because "I" don't like it. I was wrong.

wow, so easy to admit you made a mistake!

so easy a Caveman can do it wrote:

wow, so easy to admit you made a mistake!

And yet it wasn't. If only everyone found it so easy there never would have been a Meza thread.

Is frank meza update?

these threads bring out the crazies

One's that would argue that a dime is not worth 10 cents, earth is flat and only 10,000 years old. Area 51 is the real deal. Those types of crazies.

But Area 51 IS the real deal.

Looks like MI will be voluntarily shut down.

Now cheaters only have to worry about LetsRun.

HRB wrote:

Looks like MI will be voluntarily shut down.

Do you have some special insight that has not yet been shared by MI?

so easy a Caveman can do it wrote:

Call it a day wrote:

My suggestion is an embarrassing one as I simply don't have to click on the thread, versus complaining and trying to get something locked because "I" don't like it. I was wrong.

wow, so easy to admit you made a mistake!

I'm a loser anyways, always have been. I'm finely learning to admit it. Oh well. Carry on mates.

I don't have grand children but I am with my original wife and have kids. It would be abusive to them to kill myself. That's why suicide used to be terrible sin, I guess. Gradually it got to where you could have a Christian burial and make it to heaven. I don't believe in that but, I don't believe in feeling sorry for people who have children and commit suicide.

Killing himself was much worse for the people he worked with and coached then the cheating was. What a horrible example to set for the XC team that he supposedly love to mentor to better standards. The way we handle suicide . We have somehow made it such an O.k. thing to do, no wonder it's so popular. I have coached kids , and I would never want them to have to answer that I killed myself when someone says , what happened to coach so and so. It's worse when someone is supposedly a great guy , what hope is there for someone less popular and of low achievement? Here is my legacy , I leave you all demoralized.

People should know that these acts are cruel. Leaves the family to either say, look what he did to us, or make him out to be a saint pushed by cyber bullies. Evidently he was happy to leave his family with a lie too and they feel like to honor him they have to perpetuate it. . I hope he left his wife a love note or something like that.

Call it a day wrote:

I suggest the moderators lock this thread and let’s put it to rest. If anything notable happens in the future then a new thread and discussion can occur at that time.

Couldn’t agree more.

Meza obviously had deep psychological problems. The exposure pushed the issue of his behavior, but did not cause his behavior. The family was distraught, hopefully they can come to grips with the figure in their life was deeply disturbed.

Frank's law isn't new info? wrote:

Call it a day wrote:

I suggest the moderators lock this thread and let’s put it to rest. If anything notable happens in the future then a new thread and discussion can occur at that time.

The fact that Tina Meza refuses to accept that Frank was a lying cheater and is advocating for a new law to be created doesn't warrant that discussion about this continue? If you don't want to discuss this, move along. Some of us feel this is still relevant. The fact that Frank killed himself doesn't erase his history of cheating.

Yes, still relevant because those fake times are still out there. I still don't see an obituary, btw.

It’s perfectly normal to pay for an obituary that contains all the info that you want people to remember. Someone saved several dollars by not doing so.

...spending the money instead on their own operation or just bothering us.

Everydog wrote:

Killing himself was much worse for the people he worked with and coached then the cheating was. What a horrible example to set for the XC team that he supposedly love to mentor to better standards. The way we handle suicide . We have somehow made it such an O.k. thing to do, no wonder it's so popular. I have coached kids , and I would never want them to have to answer that I killed myself when someone says , what happened to coach so and so. It's worse when someone is supposedly a great guy , what hope is there for someone less popular and of low achievement? Here is my legacy , I leave you all demoralized.

+1

HEC wrote:

HRB wrote:

Looks like MI will be voluntarily shut down.

Do you have some special insight that has not yet been shared by MI?

I know I couldn't go on investigating cheaters this happened to me. Knowing that what I did in some part led to the death of another person.

And before the trolls jump on board with the "if he didn't cheat none of this would have happened" BS, he apparent;y had been cheating for 10+ years and didn't commit suicide until it was exposed locally and then nationally.

Sunlite wrote:

HEC wrote:

Do you have some special insight that has not yet been shared by MI?

I know I couldn't go on investigating cheaters this happened to me. Knowing that what I did in some part led to the death of another person.

And before the trolls jump on board with the "if he didn't cheat none of this would have happened" BS, he apparent;y had been cheating for 10+ years and didn't commit suicide until it was exposed locally and then nationally.

No, it wasn't Letsrun, it was the National Media.

Someone disagreeing with you doesn't make them a troll. If you want to use that type of thinking, you must be a troll.

Frank Meza had an easy way out to say that it was all a game or a test to see how long he could do it without getting caught. Like you, Frank didn't think of using that easy way out.

Yes, I think you are a troll.

Sunlite wrote:

HEC wrote:

Do you have some special insight that has not yet been shared by MI?

I know I couldn't go on investigating cheaters this happened to me. Knowing that what I did in some part led to the death of another person.

And before the trolls jump on board with the "if he didn't cheat none of this would have happened" BS, he apparent;y had been cheating for 10+ years and didn't commit suicide until it was exposed locally and then nationally.

But here I am posting as a troll and telling others not to be a troll. I have no life, but to come on these boards and spew my garbage.