I don't think anyone is doubting that Frank's decision to end his life (if, of course, that is what actually happened....seems as much), was his own decision. He is responsible for the act. The point, however, is deeper than just the ultimate end result.
What I can say, having been through a massive, self-inflicted, situation like this, is that the "line" I am talking about is the line where the ability to think reasonably and rationally ends. That line is a scary place to be and there is no telling what will get a person to that point. It will be different for each person (some people may never see that line). I can tell you that the line exists for everyone.
Tragic things happen in our lives that can cause someone to lose the ability to reason. Lost the ability to be rational. It happens in situations like this...it happens at the loss of a loved-one....it happens when people go into shock due to emotional or psychological trauma. In November of 1982, Kim Duk-koo died after fighting 15 rounds with Ray Mancini...three months later, Duk-koo's mother killed herself by drinking a bottle of pesticide and 5 months after that, referee Richard Green also committed suicide. It would be heartless and ignorant to brush these deaths off as, "...oh well, it is their own choice..." To be honest, sometimes that loss of reasoning can create a situation by which is isn't entirely "their decision."
I do not think Derek is to blame. I am nobody, so who really cares what I think. It seems as though he was doing his job (not sure if job is the right word).
The point at which these articles and conversations become somewhat irresponsible, is when they reach beyond the issue at hand. When I was getting slaughtered on here, Deadspin, ESPN, etc...I accepted that this was what I deserved. As this translates to Frank...what I don't think he deserves....is the posts on his Doctor page. The calls to his workplace. The attempt to ruin his personal and professional life. For what? Because he cheated on a marathon?
Not to state the obvious, but running is not that important. This website is not that important. Quite frankly, in the outside world, nobody really gives a $$it about it except the few hundred or so that come on here daily.
Frank had seemingly wrapped his identity in this. That alone is a bit irrational. When it was taken away, he lost the ability to reason and to think clearly.
Like I said, tell the story. Seek the truth. Keep in mind that this is a small part of life and it is LIFE that is more important. To those that took it upon themselves to try and ruin the man outside of running....it is up to you to decide if you went too far. Whatever conclusion you make on that...I hope you can live with it either way. You didn't push him off the bridge...but you may have contributed to the series of events that ultimately placed him on the ledge.
Again...just some honest thoughts from a cat that has been there....
~Kevin