irunfastXC wrote:
Holy sh*t it actually happened. We killed someone.
Such garbage, this "we" mentality. It shows up in popular culture, too. I'm reminded of a song lyric:
Rolling Stones: "I shouted out, 'Who killed the Kennedys?', when, after all, it was you and me." Excuse me while I barf at that lyric.
Frank killed himself. That's terribly sad, but that's the fact, Jack.
Are we responsible for every offender's self-harming, shameful reaction to his own deeds? NO!
Those of us with hearts do ache over what happened, and especially for Frank's family and friends, but it was 100% Frank's choice to take the route he did. Like any offender, be it a murderer, rapist, embezzler, or even a drug cheater in running, choices were made by perpetrators THEMSELVES, of their own free will. This culture of ours is brutal, sometimes, in meting out punishment or in expressing public opinion regarding such people (some of whom were mentally ill), but ultimately a suicide is an individual's own CHOICE.
I'm only talking about the guilty and the "relatively" sane. My assumption - my own individual conclusion based on admittedly hearsay evidence - is that Frank was guilty as sin, and that he was mostly mentally sound. Railroading an innocent person or an individual whose mental capacity makes him/her a threat to others is a separate issue in our culture, and sometimes on LetsRun.
I feel NO shame, NO blame for what Frank did to himself, or about what he did, by cheating, for a long time beforehand.