What does he mean when he says that he doesn't feel safe? Am I hurting him? Threatening him? Is he worried that I am going to steal from him? Nope. He doesn't feel 'safe' because he feels that he cannot "live his authentic self" in our current living situation, and this has been "traumatic" to him. And so he moved his stuff out while I was on a weekend vacation and told me that he will not be paying his share of the rent for the last two months of the lease.
What is it with my generation that makes people think 1) being uncomfortable is equal to being "unsafe," and 2) mild discomfort (of the sort that anyone experiences when living with another person) is tantamount to "trauma"?