she says it's because he is was at work during the birth and therefore didn't sign the birth certificate.
to those with more experience, let me know what is really going on here. how do you have 3 kids and 1 baby daddy is married, 1 is engaged, and she doesn't receive any child support?
thanks letsrun amen
She is just dumb and/or lazy
She could get child support if she tried
Free_the_thigh wrote:
She is just dumb and/or lazy
She could get child support if she tried
i was going to respond asking you how a man would get away without having to pay but i should probably take this all as a sign to move on right away. i have caught her lying about things several times so obviously my feelings are not mutual
be honest guys, I'm down on what feels like lost love
Are you dating this human garbage? Run away as fast as you can. Do not look back.
sdfasdfasdf wrote:
she says it's because he is was at work during the birth and therefore didn't sign the birth certificate.
to those with more experience, let me know what is really going on here. how do you have 3 kids and 1 baby daddy is married, 1 is engaged, and she doesn't receive any child support?
thanks letsrun amen
She doesn’t know who the father is.
sdfasdfasdf wrote:
she says it's because he is was at work during the birth and therefore didn't sign the birth certificate.
to those with more experience, let me know what is really going on here. how do you have 3 kids and 1 baby daddy is married, 1 is engaged, and she doesn't receive any child support?
thanks letsrun amen
The lady loves the fathers passionately. She is being gentle because said lady wants a relationship with at least one of men.
sdfasdfasdf wrote:
she says it's because he is was at work during the birth and therefore didn't sign the birth certificate.
to those with more experience, let me know what is really going on here. how do you have 3 kids and 1 baby daddy is married, 1 is engaged, and she doesn't receive any child support?
thanks letsrun amen
Is a baby a bit young to be able to become a daddy?
Obvious facts ... wrote:
sdfasdfasdf wrote:
she says it's because he is was at work during the birth and therefore didn't sign the birth certificate.
to those with more experience, let me know what is really going on here. how do you have 3 kids and 1 baby daddy is married, 1 is engaged, and she doesn't receive any child support?
thanks letsrun amen
The lady loves the fathers passionately. She is being gentle because said lady wants a relationship with at least one of men.
Its responsible parenting in the ghetto.
Overheard a guy bragging he had 10 kids with eight baby-mamas. Wondering how that works because in New York State child support per child is figured at 25% of gross income minus social security tax. And child support laws are taken very seriously here. Every three months there is a local auto auction of vehicles seized for failure to pay child support. Many of these are nicely outfitted work trucks used by contractors. Seems counter productive to take away a key tool for a man's livelihood but it's as much about punishment as trying to get money to the mothers. Anyway that makes me wonder how the guy with 10 kids can get by.
1. To get child support she will need to go to court and have parentage established. unless the parties stipulate to parentage, a DNA test would then usually be ordered.
2. Once parentage is legally established, the court would order child support. The father could also request that the court order visitation and could challenge for custody. The child support order would be based on the parents income and amount of time spent with each parent.
So the mother may not be pursuing child support because:
1. She does not want the fathers to be able to pursue a visitation schedule or challenge for custody
2. She believes the dads do not make enough money that any support would be meaningful
3. She is not 100% sure on the parentage of at least one of the kids and doesn't want to risk the test showing her to be incorrect.
4. Filing fees for the parentage case could seem daunting.
Invalid Username wrote:
Anyway that makes me wonder how the guy with 10 kids can get by.
By selling meth in large amounts.
sdfasdfasdf wrote:
she says it's because he is was at work during the birth and therefore didn't sign the birth certificate.
to those with more experience, let me know what is really going on here. how do you have 3 kids and 1 baby daddy is married, 1 is engaged, and she doesn't receive any child support?
thanks letsrun amen
No good without pics.
possible reasons wrote:
The child support order would be based on the parents income and amount of time spent with each parent.
All good points. Appreciate you thinking that through for me. Just seems so unfair to all the guys that struggle to meet their obligations and responsibilities, often facing severe consequences when they fail. Of course life isn't fair and never has been.
Time with children, however, doesn't play into the legal requirements, based on my experience. My ex-wife and I agreed to just 15% of my income (versus 25%) because our son was with me three and a half days, and same with her. The judge very reluctantly accepted our agreement, saying proportion of time with each parent had no bearing on the child support amount.
Boooooooooooooo!
possible reasons wrote:
1. To get child support she will need to go to court and have parentage established. unless the parties stipulate to parentage, a DNA test would then usually be ordered.
2. Once parentage is legally established, the court would order child support. The father could also request that the court order visitation and could challenge for custody. The child support order would be based on the parents income and amount of time spent with each parent.
So the mother may not be pursuing child support because:
1. She does not want the fathers to be able to pursue a visitation schedule or challenge for custody
2. She believes the dads do not make enough money that any support would be meaningful
3. She is not 100% sure on the parentage of at least one of the kids and doesn't want to risk the test showing her to be incorrect.
4. Filing fees for the parentage case could seem daunting.
Pretty much nails the stated purpose of the thread. Now we can focus on mocking the OP and his girlfriend?
It is one thing to make a mistake. It's another thing to make that same mistake 3 times! Feel bad for the kids. But let's give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she was a drug addict for those three births, but now she has cleaned up and is trying to move forward? Not much of an upside, but it is something... people can change...
She Easy wrote:
sdfasdfasdf wrote:
she says it's because he is was at work during the birth and therefore didn't sign the birth certificate.
to those with more experience, let me know what is really going on here. how do you have 3 kids and 1 baby daddy is married, 1 is engaged, and she doesn't receive any child support?
thanks letsrun amen
She doesn’t know who the father is.
they got a test afterwards to prove it was the boyfriends (she was cheating on him). but why does she not get child support? there has got to be more to it
and no i am not dating her anymore, i had enough of the bs
sdfasdfasdf wrote:
she says it's because he is was at work during the birth and therefore didn't sign the birth certificate.
to those with more experience, let me know what is really going on here. how do you have 3 kids and 1 baby daddy is married, 1 is engaged, and she doesn't receive any child support?
thanks letsrun amen
She be givin burf n shi.......
Is this young lady keeping it real?
Invalid Username wrote:
Overheard a guy bragging he had 10 kids with eight baby-mamas. Wondering how that works because in New York State child support per child is figured at 25% of gross income minus social security tax. And child support laws are taken very seriously here. Every three months there is a local auto auction of vehicles seized for failure to pay child support. Many of these are nicely outfitted work trucks used by contractors. Seems counter productive to take away a key tool for a man's livelihood but it's as much about punishment as trying to get money to the mothers. Anyway that makes me wonder how the guy with 10 kids can get by.
You are just plain WRONG on that. Not sure if you are simply lying or just ignorant (and lying about "knowing" how it works in NY state).