OPL wrote:
I think the OP is just jealous of rich guys taking all the girls. I'm 34 and go to a college gym because it's right near my work and they have a deal with my employer. I go to work out, not to look at chicks. They look at me though when I walk in with my suit that's worth more than their boyfriend's crappy car. They also look when I'm lifting more weight than their boyfriend. They appreciate that I'm focused on my workout and not them or checking myself out in the mirror. I've been approached by several girls, a few that I ended up hooking up with. And unlike the little college boys I know how to end a hookup so we are still cool when we see each other at the gym.
OP goes home DEVASTATED. Sorry, bro.
This is his Walter Mitty dream. Rooted in insecurity. The obvious reality is that nobody notices him and nobody cares.
The same as it was for him when he was in college.