Your response is a classic example of how a lifetime of indoctrination kills the ability to think critically.
"You can't look at the past with today's standards. Everybody was racist 100 years ago"
1978 wasn't 100 years ago. Slavery and racism are immoral and the Mormon Church should apologize for their racism. Not everyone was racist even when slavery was legal. What is the point of having a prophet that receives guidance from God? Isn't a prophet supposed to be prophetic and transcendent? Doesn't the Mormon Church teach that it doesn't follow the "ways of the world?" When the Mormon prophet received revelation that blacks can't hold the preisthood, were the prophets mistaken, or is God racist?
" Is the church currently racist by today's standards? "
Yes, the Mormon church has canonized racism. The Book of Mormon teaches white skin is "pure and delightsome" and dark skin is a curse.
"Women can hold plenty of leadership positions and are fine with the positions that they can and can't hold"
Women don't hold any positions that aren't overseen and selected by men. How do you know they are fine with the positions that they are allowed to hold? They promise in the temple not to speak ill of their male leaders, and to obey their husbands. Women have no voice in the Mormon church. Google Kate Kelly. She was excommunicated for advocating for equal right of women in the Mormon religion.
"Women also have "advantages" over men in the church"
Care to give any examples?
"Nobody can force their views onto you"
I live in Utah. The Mormon Church controls the state legislators. Over the last couple of years the Mormon Church has killed bills that would have made stronger laws for hate crimes, and criminalized conversion therapy. The Mormon Church tried to kill the bill that would have legalized medical cannabis. The public opposed the Church's stance, so state legislators passed a watered down version of the bill at the request of Mormon lobbyists. So yeah, the Mormon Church does force their view onto me.
"The church contributes more to humanitarian aid than almost anyone else and definitely more than you ever will."
I contribute a lot more than 0.8% of my revenue to charitable causes. I would certainly contribute more that $40 million a year if I brought in over $5 billion. However, my ability to give to charities is irrelevant to the argument. The Mormon Church could do far more good in the world than they do. If Jesus were leading the Mormon Church, do you think he would tell leaders to spend $5 billion to purchase a mall (City Creek Mall)? Would he instruct leaders to put rugs in temples that cost over $20,000?
"There are a lot of expenses to be paid than you would realize and the .8% that they contribute towards humanitarian aid is actually a lot higher when you consider the ways they spend money that indirectly contribute to humanitarian aid.
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The Mormon Church owns over $32 billion in stock (they shelter it in umbrella companies that are just a front). They earn over a billion dollars in just investment income a year. Don't bullshit me about them having too many expenses to give more than a pitiful 0.8% of their revenue to humanitarian aid. They bought a $5 billion shopping mall! If the Mormon Church didn't keep their financial information as secretive as they do, we would have a clearer picture of how little they actually do compared to what they are capable of doing.
"I hold my stance that it gives more good than bad"
I hold my stance that the Mormon Church does little good in the world, and has blood on its hands for the suicides that have occurred as a result of their ostracizing the marginalized.