Kekdkfmdkdk wrote:
Why do these threads always focus on what the guy can do to "serve his wife" to make her better? Is she a fairy take creature that can do no wrong, making all the blame for her poor behavior rest on your shoulders?
Because Ryan Gosling became an actor. Telling you.. once he started doing those movies where he was a city boy that moved to the country, chops wood all day with his shirt unbuttoned, doesn't have an actual job but somehow has a 6,000sqft house he built by hand, communicates perfectly and overcomes his damaged past to make her happy everyday.. yeah, guys are all screwed.
Kinda like how guys watch porn and expect all girls to be the same way.. hot and ready to go. Yeah. Right.
With that said, about 90% of the time here. I will take the advice on "do one thing for my wife each day without her having to ask" and see how it goes. I'd like to think the 47 other things I do each day without her having to ask count for something.. but so far, not so much. But, I'll be optimistic!
Problem is.. the whole mind reading thing. Hard to know what she wants me to do without her having to say it. My advice to girls is: Tell him exactly what you want. Guys will work their assess off 100% of the time if you simply say what you want exactly, because in the end they think there will be sex as a result. It's like training a dog.. you start by giving it treats, but eventually they just listen and do what you say (with the occasional reinforcement) when you speak clearly and tell them what to do. It's not hard. But, thinking my dog will sit without me saying anything.. not gonna happen.