Chin up, man. The thought of watching Tom Brady on television for three plus hours probably caused her to temporarily forget about you.
Chin up, man. The thought of watching Tom Brady on television for three plus hours probably caused her to temporarily forget about you.
Doc26 wrote:
Maybe I'm just being neurotic, but I’m honestly still no more sure what to think than I was before.
Go if you want to go. I don't understand this thread at all.
gahagand wrote:
You gotta chill bro. Bring a case of natty lite and be confident, you'll be fine
+1.... Show up and see what's happening. There may be better prospects than your absent minded hostess. If it ain't your scene, leave. What have you got to lose?
Text a dick pic, see how she responds.
kievjamin wrote:
Better move would text her to see if you can bring anything to the SB party, and base your reactions on her response (or lack thereof).
good move
Doc26 wrote:
I followed your advice (thanks). She said I could bring beer, but she didn’t come across very excited or interested. Usually her texts have all kinds of emojis and exclamation points and all that. But tonight it was basically just “oh, if you come I guess you can bring some beer if you want.”
This is a crystal clear non-invitation. I agree that she probably has someone else coming now and doesn't think the two of you will be good to have at the same time. Text her back and say you'd love to come, but something came up and she'll have to come to your place for the Pro Bowl instead.
Bump into a gal night before SB (1976 I think). We hang out then back to her place and I stay over. We get up late. I'm naked making my famous bacon,potato peppers omelette for brunch when her doorbell rings-- ---
Fluck I forgot I have a SB date she exclaims.
Therefore I advise you :
Bring a book in case you have to wait a bit for the party to start.
My advice and 2 cents if this isn't a good troll.
Do not go. Do not talk to her until Monday. If she asks why you weren't there say something like "oh damn, I meant to stop by, but I was at ___'s instead" or "I ended up watching at / with ____ so we could ____ afterwards." Something like that. I would absolutely not go, and then be completely casual about it Monday. If you do go, it will be a little tense and *definitely* awkward when you get there and when you leave. Don't let yourself go.
Yes, you were uninvited.
Women don't forget things.
That was her way of saying don't come over.
whateveryoudo wrote:
My advice and 2 cents if this isn't a good troll.
Do not go. Do not talk to her until Monday. If she asks why you weren't there say something like "oh damn, I meant to stop by, but I was at ___'s instead" or "I ended up watching at / with ____ so we could ____ afterwards." Something like that. I would absolutely not go, and then be completely casual about it Monday. If you do go, it will be a little tense and *definitely* awkward when you get there and when you leave. Don't let yourself go.
This, but no "blah blah instead."
"Oh yeah, I totally meant to stop by." And that's that. Only if she brings it up. Otherwise never, ever mention it again.
Trustory wrote:
Superbowl during college. Girl invites me to her party, hands me her address, says show at noon.
I show, and there are literally 50 other guys at her condo. Maybe a half hour later she spots me, drags me into her bedroom, and just talks. About what, I don't recall. Ferns everywhere. Ferns. Ferns. Ferns.
Then she leads me out of the room. No, nothing happened. She just talked. Get another guy, walks in there, same deal.
Some other dude asks me, "She handed you a note, too?"
I went home, called a buddy, watched the game at a bar.
In retrospect being in her room alone was time for you to make a move but it still weird.
100% do not go. Without a doubt you were uninvited but the way she did it was completely chickenshit. Don't ask her how the party was or even mention the game for that matter. She is lame... move on.
Millennials are the first generation smart enough to realize that socializing shouldn't be a stressful commitment. Invitations are handed out willy-nilly because most of us will say 'maybe' to anything and then flake.
Just don't go and then come in on Monday SUPER HUNGOVER and make her jealous, is what I'm trying to say.
Piling on wrote:
100% do not go. Without a doubt you were uninvited but the way she did it was completely chickenshit. Don't ask her how the party was or even mention the game for that matter. She is lame... move on.
Yup, you shouldn't have sent that text. If you HAD to text, instead you should have said, "hey, I got invited to my cousin's party so I'm kinda obligated to be there, sorry I can't make it to yours!" and go from there. But yeah, at this point it's clear that you shouldn't show up or ask/talk about it at all again, you look pathetic for trying to reinvite yourself to the party after she let you down easy. Turn the page.
Show up anyway! Show her who’s her daddy!
Don't go to her place for the game. Absolutely not. ESPECIALLY if you like her.
She met someone else or she saw that you were not making any moves whatsoever after she declared some interest weeks ago.
Pavlovian statement at end of work or school week, = See you Monday
disregard
Harambe wrote:
Millennials are the first generation smart enough to realize that socializing shouldn't be a stressful commitment. Invitations are handed out willy-nilly because most of us will say 'maybe' to anything and then flake.
Just don't go and then come in on Monday SUPER HUNGOVER and make her jealous, is what I'm trying to say.
Yeah, display on Monday morning that you have an issue with alcohol, can't control how much you drink, and may have barfed on her had you been at her place.
The Real List wrote:
Pavlovian statement at end of work or school week, = See you Monday
disregard
Absolute BS. If the OP's presence at her Super Bowl party were remotely important to this woman, the event would've been in the forefront of her mind on Friday afternoon as they said their goodbyes and she would've mentioned something about it in an anticipatory tone, not "forgotten" about the invite and uttered some "Pavlovian statement" instead.
Think about it: If you invited a woman you were interested in to your place for a party, would you forget to mention it, either by accident or design, the last time you spoke to her before said event? Hell no.