Did I just get uninvited from this girl’s Super Bowl party?

She forgot she invited you. Take that as you will.

Better move would text her to see if you can bring anything to the SB party, and base your reactions on her response (or lack thereof).

kievjamin wrote:

Better move would text her to see if you can bring anything to the SB party, and base your reactions on her response (or lack thereof).

This. She may have just forgot, especially since she’s probably not use to seeing you on the weekend (so “see you Monday” is normal for her). Or maybe she decided not to have a party and forgot to tell you. Would see how or if she responds when you text her to see what you could bring.

She forgot she invited you. You read way too much into the invite and got your panties all rolled up. She is not into you.

5/10 so far, but this is pretty good work. I'll update this later depending on the response qualities.

It sucks you’re in this situation. If she said it like that, probably she’s not that into you. However, you never know. I would text her, and depending on her response, still show up. You never know, maybe she really likes you. You only live once. I’d say go for it.

Superbowl during college. Girl invites me to her party, hands me her address, says show at noon.

I show, and there are literally 50 other guys at her condo. Maybe a half hour later she spots me, drags me into her bedroom, and just talks. About what, I don't recall. Ferns everywhere. Ferns. Ferns. Ferns.

Then she leads me out of the room. No, nothing happened. She just talked. Get another guy, walks in there, same deal.

Some other dude asks me, "She handed you a note, too?"

I went home, called a buddy, watched the game at a bar.

Prob shouldn't try to smash someone in your lab unless you're a real cool customer. Gotta spend YEARS with them.

She probably forgot she's even having a party.

Doc26 wrote:

I’m leaning toward skipping it

Good idea.

This thread is useless without pics of her

kievjamin wrote:

Better move would text her to see if you can bring anything to the SB party, and base your reactions on her response (or lack thereof).

I followed your advice (thanks). She said I could bring beer, but she didn’t come across very excited or interested. Usually her texts have all kinds of emojis and exclamation points and all that. But tonight it was basically just “oh, if you come I guess you can bring some beer if you want.”

Maybe I’m just being neurotic, but I’m honestly still no more sure what to think than I was before.

You gotta chill bro. Bring a case of natty lite and be confident, you'll be fine

Doc26 wrote:

kievjamin wrote:

Better move would text her to see if you can bring anything to the SB party, and base your reactions on her response (or lack thereof).

I followed your advice (thanks). She said I could bring beer, but she didn’t come across very excited or interested. Usually her texts have all kinds of emojis and exclamation points and all that. But tonight it was basically just “oh, if you come I guess you can bring some beer if you want.”

Maybe I’m just being neurotic, but I’m honestly still no more sure what to think than I was before.

Wait, you’re old enough to buy beer? I figured you were some awkward college freshman.

gahagand wrote:

You gotta chill bro. Bring a case of natty lite and be confident, you'll be fine

This. I'm assuming other women will be there so try to get to "know" them. Forget this chick.

Sounds like she is a little cold and distant based on that text.

Unfortunately here is how this works. If you care about having a future date or something with her you should not go over there unless she texts you to ask where you are. Find some of your friends to hang out with and if she bugs you to come over ask if you can bring your friends. If you have female friends even better. If your friends don't want to go enjoy them wherever you are.

She will not value you unless you have something going on outside of her world.

Sounds like she has someone coming over that was not originally going to be there.

To the OP: If you were interested in this woman then why were you "kind of becoming friends" with her? That's what a passive beta or a gay guy would do. If you have romantic/sexual inclinations towards a woman you make that manifest immediately and invite her somewhere, you don't sit back, do this "friends first" nonsense and hope she'll take all the initiative. Sounds like this ship has sailed.

Man Up wrote:

To the OP: If you were interested in this woman then why were you "kind of becoming friends" with her? That's what a passive beta or a gay guy would do. If you have romantic/sexual inclinations towards a woman you make that manifest immediately and invite her somewhere, you don't sit back, do this "friends first" nonsense and hope she'll take all the initiative. Sounds like this ship has sailed.

Thanks Message Board CaveMan!

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