Ben There wrote:
Hello OP,
I haven't read the whole thread, but I had your exact same experience, except my MDD hit me in my junior year of high school. My 5k times were slower than when I was a freshman.
Here's what you need to do:
1) Give up your competitive college athletics dreams. Even Mike Tyson svcked at boxing once he got on his much needed anti-depressants.
2) DO NOT STOP RUNNING, OR YOUR DEPRESSION WILL GET MUCH MUCH WORSE.
Think about it, OP, running is the best anti-depressant in the world and you're still depressed, because you have a mood disorder that is biological, like me.
What you don't realize is that running has been your most important anti-depressant medication all along. Stop running and your whole life will fall apart in ways you can't even comprehend, with severe emotional baggage that might basically leave you emotionally disabled.
You think I'm being alarmist and over-dramatic, because it hasn't happened to you yet.
3) These people telling you to stop running or stop taking your medication simply don't understand that you have a biological disease of the most serious kind, a depressive mood disorder. You will encounter people like this the rest of your life. They mean well, but they're as misguided as telling somebody with a stage 4 stomach cancer tumor that they should just do more sit ups, because it worked for them and flattened their stomach.
4) You can still be a lifelong, above average runner. You also might be able to get off the first medication you listed. I'm on a small dose of Mirtazapine and a small dose of Paxil and it's holding me together along with the all important EXERCISE.
That first medication you listed might be some real heavy sht that you don't necessarily need to take for the rest of your life. And it might be that you can win/place in a lot of 5k and 10k and half marathon races in your adult life, with or without that particular medication.
5) Be prepared for more aspects of your life to suffer/fall apart, aside from athletics. It's time to start considering the possibility that you will need to re-adjust some of your career goals, and graduate school is probably a bad investment, because you don't know exactly where this mental health disability will take you.
YOU MAY EVENTUALLY BE LITERALLY LUCKY JUST TO BE ABLE TO GET OUT OF BED AND DO A FULL DAY OF MINDLESS LABOR at some point in your life. I really hope this doesn't happen to you, but it very well might. You need to make all the right choices, and even then you need to get lucky that the chemical/biological side of the equation works out for you.
Mood disorders set in between the ages of 13-22. You're dealing with a mood disorder. And depression is arguably one of the most serious conditions in existence. Fatally ill cancer patients tend to have a better outlook on life than depressed people. You need to do everything in your power to keep that depression at bay as much as possible. That means taking your meds, running very consistently, and being able to hold a job down after college.
Ignore my advice and you'll regret it the rest of your life. But know that you might do everything right and still see your work life, your love life, and your social life be ruined over the coming 10-20-30 years. Don't ask me how I know.
Looking back, I wish I never stopped running in college and for 20 years after. My life might have been quite different. Once you fall into a deep depression it's hard to get out, and it only gets harder to get out the older you get. And you suffer mild brain damage, and it puts you on the path of likely early dementia. You'll lose your short-term memory, which is key to any job, and you might even find yourself telling a story you already told the person a few days ago.
OP, think of yourself as a gazelle in the jungle now. You need to run for your life every day, and take your meds, and see your doctors, and create a low-ish stress future for yourself, or you will likely fall into a series of ever-worsening major depressive episodes that will ruin your life as you understand it.