Currently being cyber-stalked / harrassed - possible recourse?

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5 years ago 01/11/2019 9:12am EST

Deer LR,

I'm currently dealing with a crazy ex (I suspect) who is anonymously harassing my girlfriend via instagram, twitter, and even text message. The stalker has created accounts with my name and picture, calling me a cheater and commenting on my girlfriend's photos.

I can't prove who is behind this, but I do have a phone number and multiple anonymous instagram accounts. Called a few law firms this week but it sounds like ~$5,000 is the minimum to open one of these cases.

For context, I'm in my late 20s and have a career in a field I'm excited about (part of the reason I don't love having my name and image posted online). My girlfriend is obviously distraught over being anonymously targeted.

Always surprised by some of the good advice that comes from here and I know we've got posters with all sorts of experience and knowledge.

Thanks in advance for any serious (and non-serious) replies.

5 years ago 01/11/2019 9:18am EST

re: The Internet is Hell

Ever heard of blocking?

5 years ago 01/11/2019 10:34am EST

re: Here's a idea

Here's a idea wrote:
Ever heard of blocking?

This ^^

Plus report the accounts for harassment. Or spend the $5K.

5 years ago 01/11/2019 10:36am EST

re: The Internet is Hell

Don't waste time on social media. Waste time here.

5 years ago 01/11/2019 10:41am EST

re: The Internet is Hell

The Internet is Hell wrote:
Deer LR,
I'm currently dealing with a crazy ex (I suspect) who is anonymously harassing my girlfriend via instagram, twitter, and even text message. The stalker has created accounts with my name and picture, calling me a cheater and commenting on my girlfriend's photos.
I can't prove who is behind this, but I do have a phone number and multiple anonymous instagram accounts. Called a few law firms this week but it sounds like ~$5,000 is the minimum to open one of these cases.
For context, I'm in my late 20s and have a career in a field I'm excited about (part of the reason I don't love having my name and image posted online). My girlfriend is obviously distraught over being anonymously targeted.
Always surprised by some of the good advice that comes from here and I know we've got posters with all sorts of experience and knowledge.
Thanks in advance for any serious (and non-serious) replies.

You lost me at "my girlfriend."

5 years ago 01/11/2019 11:10am EST

re: Here's a idea

I have, unfortunately there is no limit on the amount of accounts someone can create, not to mention element of having one's name dragged through the mud. As far as reporting, these platforms all seem quite slow to act, even after multiple attempts.

5 years ago 01/11/2019 11:44am EST

re: The Internet is Hell

You can't hide from me, you little b*tch!

Keep whining to your Trump-loving running nerd friends and I'll keep posting on IG.

5 years ago 01/11/2019 12:05pm EST

re: The Internet is Hell

Get off social media. Focus on the people in front of you. Your lives will improve dramatically.

5 years ago 01/11/2019 12:11pm EST

re: Already social

Judge Judy. The show will fly you both out and provide accommodations, and Judge Judy will mediate the situation for you.

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