See, this is the problem. We are all over-the top maniacs.
My story: I had one older guy at a bar approach me and tell me that he observed me playing pool with my friend and he said
"I was in prison for 25 years, you have the exact same traits as a lot of those guys, you need to control it. See, one day, there will be some guy that kind of starts something, and you will escalate it, pop him in the jaw with all your power, and he will fall the wrong way, and you might kill him" then he said something really spooky " the problem is, you kind of people cant even see that your actions are wrong, you think he deserves it"
And that's true. I have reflected on that many times. Its compassion and understanding for the situation that I would lack there. And impulsive anger.
As I grow older its becoming more and more serious for me to channel my over-the-top into other parts of my life. not with people. Last time I checked I could get away with ish like fights, now, I'll go to prison. Coming of age.
That being said, go do a hard WO on pure hate this week.