seeking advice re: NYE party drama

not rudisha wrote:

rare wrote:

OP, any updates about the girl you met?

This is getting out of control. I’ll try to keep it short. So ends up she is friends with my friends girlfriend. She had my friend call me to now say her friend was too drunk for consent and she was saving her from an assault. My friend told me this as she won’t let him be friends with a “rapist.” He hung up after. I’m shook guys. WTF.

You had a solid 5/10 going...Not particularly interesting subject matter, but 3 pages of responses from people who for the most part thought your post was real. But the update is too over the top. Only the high schoolers on this forum would buy it now.

PS High schoolers: Hooking up in someone else’s bed is gross. You ever been in a hotel and found a hair (or worse on the bed)? Yeah, it’s like that only 30 times worse because the sheets weren’t even supposed to be clean.

I would never tell anyone how to do his trolling, but instead of the rape claims, how about if the friend’s girlfriend knows your NYE hookup and wants to have a threesome with the two of you. It’s win-win-win.

sbeefyk2 wrote:

Just tell the gf you are sorry for your actions and move on.

The gf is your stereotypical entitled girl who likes to complain about every little thing in life. I bet she also complains at restaurants if there’s one less ice cube in her water.

She’s the type that is always the victim and will always make everyone know she’s the victim. Honestly I feel bad for your friend. He’s absolutely screwed and odds are he recognizes and doesn’t like her entitled and stuck up personality but he’s afraid to break up with her.

This actually reminds me of my own recent situation. I went to a gathering of several mutual acquaintances and had a nice time but wanted to get home so said goodnight to all and left. One of my friends later tells me that after I left, one of the girlfriends of one of the other guys just started ripping me a new butthole behind my back. Just going up and down with what's wrong with me, how I've done wrong to people she knows, etc. All this after putting on a polite face and saying nothing of the sort while I was there. And her boyfriend just played along with it, didn't throw some brakes on her exaggerated lies. I've witnessed her history, she is the type who is the type that is always the victim and will always make everyone know she's the victim. She has blown up at me and others, including my friend who witnessed this latest tired and reported it to me. My friend considers her a toxic personality, and I have to agree. I concluded that I'd never choose to be around where either of them are again, even if it means missing get togethers that include the other friends.

What does "always plays the victim" mean? I've heard this term thrown around often but I'm not clear on what people mean by it.

Any dramatic story she told had something just happening to her that she didn't see coming. Work, personal, recreation, it was either someone else's fault or nobody's fault, she never expressed any culpability about these situations she found herself in.

It is amazing, really remarkable, what lengths some on letsrun will go for troll posts. I mean, troll posts like this one probably take up a not insignificant amount of time. Wow!

Mikeh33 wrote:

It is amazing, really remarkable, what lengths some on letsrun will go for troll posts. I mean, troll posts like this one probably take up a not insignificant amount of time. Wow!

In the OP’s defense, since the post isn’t running related, he probably cross posted it to city data and Reddit. That’s pretty good value.