Seriously mate? wrote:
Doesn't matter if you have zero personality or confidence to back it up. Women aren't nearly as visual in their attraction as men are.
As written your statement is somewhat true. If you have zero personality and confidence it won't go as well as it would otherwise. Unless you take it to top 0.1% levels of no confidence and personality though you will still do fine. Socially awkward, uninteresting attractive guys get women. Even the clueless ones occasionally get women because the women pursue them aggressively enough to get past the cluelessness.
Being extremely attractive is a massive advantage with women, especially from a getting laid perspective. Less so, but still relevant from a dating/relationship perspective. Extremely good looking guys can get women constantly and effortlessly if they have even a shred of confidence. There are literally guys out there with successful YT channels and their channel content is them taking of their shirts and filming females reactions (tbf, guys definitely get the same way around attractive women). Women might not be as visual as men, but don't underplay the power of being a good looking guy, and the insane power of being an 8+ guy.
The good news though, is that your overall premise is true. A guy with a mediocre face that stays healthy, maybe goes to the gym a little bit, and develops a strong, confident personality also does good with women and can easily get laid or find relationships. Usually in different contexts though. The personality, more average physical appearance guy will do best in social circle situations, classes, etc. The guy that is all looks no confidence will be almost infinitely better online dating, much much better at bars and clubs, and better at most one time events like parties/concert/social gatherings.