I dont speak female wrote:
Alright I think I understand what’s going on now. How should I take it from here? We know each other fairly well and see each other a couple times a day. I would like to let her know that I like her
You TELL her that. It's not rocket science, she's not an alien creature.
See what she says. If she's not interested, move on.
old guy 72 wrote:
Just call her up and ask her out. Just don't come across as needy or desperate. If you try to explain yourself you'll dig a hole you'll never get out of. Even if you're faking it try to project some self confidence. Don't confuse arrogance with self confidence. Nobody likes arrogance.
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Text her for a casual coffee. Worst scenario she says no. Then you move on. This isn’t brain surgery.
duhh wrote:
old guy 72 wrote:
Just call her up and ask her out. Just don't come across as needy or desperate. If you try to explain yourself you'll dig a hole you'll never get out of. Even if you're faking it try to project some self confidence. Don't confuse arrogance with self confidence. Nobody likes arrogance.
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Text her for a casual coffee. Worst scenario she says no. Then you move on. This isn’t brain surgery.
In 2018 we consider this sexual harassment. Do NOT take the advice of the hobby-jogger boomers unless you want to be reported for title IX offenses and banned from university grounds.
So it’s ok to text? I’ve always heard that it was wrong to do so. If it’s acceptable, then I’ll be fine.
I dont speak female wrote:
So it’s ok to text? I’ve always heard that it was wrong to do so. If it’s acceptable, then I’ll be fine.
Depends on how attractive you are.
Woke wrote:
duhh wrote:
+1
Text her for a casual coffee. Worst scenario she says no. Then you move on. This isn’t brain surgery.
In 2018 we consider this sexual harassment. Do NOT take the advice of the hobby-jogger boomers unless you want to be reported for title IX offenses and banned from university grounds.
What?
I’m no boomer and my hobbyjoggerness is up for debate but if you think asking your teammate out for coffee is a title IX offense you’re either an idiot or a convicted perv.
I dont speak female wrote:
So it’s ok to text? I’ve always heard that it was wrong to do so. If it’s acceptable, then I’ll be fine.
I said “text” because you sound shy and you said that’s how you two have been interacting for the most part. Asking someone out in person is better, but you’re less likely to trip up over what you say via text.
I dont speak female wrote:
Alright I think I understand what’s going on now. How should I take it from here? We know each other fairly well and see each other a couple times a day. I would like to let her know that I like her
If you see her a couple of times a day just start talking to her. See what kind of signals she gives out. You don't need to tell her right out that you like her. Ask her to do something with you - study together, coffee, whatever. She will figure it out.
Speak French to her. Women can't resist that $hit.
Simple: text her an Alexi Pappas poem. Start calling her a bravey.
moran, just ask her out.
"Had a great time at the banquet, can't wait to see you again. What are you doing Friday?" or something should suffice.
You should directly tell her you are going to grab some coffee/whatever after school and she ought to drop by if she wants to hang out. Don't ask her if she's interested or text her unless you want this to drag out for weeks. Show some confidence and independence.
Danny Democrat wrote:
"Had a great time at the banquet, can't wait to see you again. What are you doing Friday?" or something should suffice.
I like this advice. Do this. Maybe add a plan at the end like "Wanna get coffee?" or "Wanna grab a drink?" or whatever u plan on doing.
Whatev wrote:
Danny Democrat wrote:
"Had a great time at the banquet, can't wait to see you again. What are you doing Friday?" or something should suffice.
I like this advice. Do this. Maybe add a plan at the end like "Wanna get coffee?" or "Wanna grab a drink?" or whatever u plan on doing.
Girl response here. This, except leave out "can't wait to see you again".
"Had a great time at the banquet. What are you doing Friday? wanna get coffee?"
If she doesn't like you, you'll know if she straight up doesn't answer or says no. If she offers a yes, with an excuse why she can't on Friday, you're in limbo. If she says yes, there you go.
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Banana Bread wrote:
If she think that then it is her lose and she is definitely not your soulmate. I always thought this was a good thing to say because it proves that you are looking for a meaningful long term relationship so she doesn't have to worry that you are just after a one night stand.
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You already screwed this up. Time for drastic action!!!
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Agreed! You need to step up the romance if you're ever going to get her back. Try standing outside her house and seranade her with a boombox playing your favorite song. She might try playing hard to get. If she doesn't answer, tie a love letter to a brick and throw it through her window.
Go pick up a half wilted bouquet of flowers wrapped in colored cellophane to mimic a doily at your local 7-11. That’s sure to impress a true lady.
You messed up. Why didn't you respond when you like her?
Honestly man you just gotta go for broke and whip it out
Man this site has really gone downhill.
Um.... pics?
She probably had a few guys on speed txt and you were the first to be cut.
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