• A positive thread for once
      • Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 7:40AM
      • A positive thread for once
      • I was in Tulsa through the weekend and yesterday for meetings. I work in a business that requires travel all over the nation, and I was blown away at the kindness of people in Tulsa. I've never seen anything like it. It was start to finish: airport, hotel, restaurants, business interaction, running interaction, and even just getting gasoline ($2.40 a gallon?!?!). Really cool out and back trail on a river for my long run yesterday- really enjoyable place. I'm an East Coast native, and regret all the times that I made fun of Oklahoma. I suppose I had to experience it to appreciate it. Hats off, Okies.
        Anyone else with similar experiences in underhyped areas in the nation?
    • CoachB
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      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 7:48AM - in reply to Gravy
      • CoachB
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      • Spent time in San Angelo, TX in the Military. I had much the same experience. When I got back home to California, my first thought was, "why is everyone in such a hurry"?
    • They grow there own trees, don't they?
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 8:27AM - in reply to A positive thread for once
      • They grow there own trees, don't they?
      • I agree on Tulsa(if you think so because you have met me), but disagree otherwise. The people here are not great to me and it is impossible to find a soulmate or be respected. My cousin Buck wanted me to move with him to Seattle a few years back but I bailed out. I'm reconsidering now.
    • A fan of trees and banana bread
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 8:50AM - in reply to They grow there own trees, don't they?
      • A fan of trees and banana bread
      • They grow there own trees, don't they? wrote:

        I agree on Tulsa(if you think so because you have met me), but disagree otherwise. The people here are not great to me and it is impossible to find a soulmate or be respected. My cousin Buck wanted me to move with him to Seattle a few years back but I bailed out. I'm reconsidering now.

        You should move Tennessee. Have you ever been to the Smokey mountains or DollyWood?
    • Trump20220OP-the real one...
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 9:15AM - in reply to A fan of trees and banana bread
      • Trump20220OP-the real one...
      • I was born in Oklahoma. Home of Will Rogers. Yeah, most people will tell you I'm a kind and nice guy. I'm even nice to lefty liberals. They need extra special attention because they are so confused.

        S.O.W.P.
    • YMMV
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      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 10:56AM - in reply to ish
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      • I spent three months living out of my car in Southern Utah a few years back (rock climbing and running) and found the locals extremely nice and helpful almost without exception. Coming from the "too cool for school" West Coast it is very marked.
    • Strange Language
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 10:57AM - in reply to ish
      • Strange Language
      • What do you mean by ‘person of color?’ Color denotes specific wavelength properties of a substance. Are you saying that there are people without color? Please educate me on the basic science behind the phrase. I’m fascinated to find out more about these people without color - are you referring to a supernatural phenomenon?
    • YMMV
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      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 11:02AM - in reply to YMMV
      • YMMV
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      • YMMV wrote:

        I spent three months living out of my car in Southern Utah a few years back (rock climbing and running) and found the locals extremely nice and helpful almost without exception. Coming from the "too cool for school" West Coast it is very marked.

        I should add that I looked like a long-haired hippy and most of the people were Mormon.
    • RastaMon
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 11:57AM - in reply to A positive thread for once
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      • Tulsa and Norman are a bit of outliers as far as Oklahoma is concerned. Agree Tulsa people are generally very nice and interesting within the city, lots of culture and big on cycling and some running. That quickly fades as you get out into the suburbs though. Overall a much more interesting state than people likely give it credit for but still very backwards in many respects. Seems to be slowly shiftinf though with more common sense liquor laws and hell they even voted to legalize weed.
    • zucchini bread
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 12:04PM - in reply to They grow there own trees, don't they?
      • zucchini bread
      • They grow there own trees, don't they? wrote:

        I agree on Tulsa(if you think so because you have met me), but disagree otherwise. The people here are not great to me and it is impossible to find a soulmate or be respected. My cousin Buck wanted me to move with him to Seattle a few years back but I bailed out. I'm reconsidering now.

        Why'd you change your name, BB?
    • Dromano19
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      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 12:04PM - in reply to OK...
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      • What does this have to do with the general population of Oklahoma being nice? Throw some articles in that response, please.
    • Ca is slowwwww
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 12:06PM - in reply to CoachB
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      • CoachB wrote:

        Spent time in San Angelo, TX in the Military. I had much the same experience. When I got back home to California, my first thought was, "why is everyone in such a hurry"?

        Wait, there are places that make California seem fast? I'm from NY and every time I'm in LA I can barely handle the slow pace of everything. People waiting for the crossing signal rather than jaywalking? Lines at coffee shops taking for-freaking-ever!
    • itdepends
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 12:07PM - in reply to Dromano19
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      • Dromano19 wrote:

        What does this have to do with the general population of Oklahoma being nice? Throw some articles in that response, please.

        Well, policies and political actions are determined by the populace. So, I think article poster was perhaps showing a two faced side of Oklahoma? Nice when they say hello to some people, but maybe not so nice to all of their citzens.
    • A positive thread for once
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 12:20PM - in reply to ish
      • A positive thread for once
      • ish wrote:

        Try being a person of color or a non heterosexual in Oklahoma and you'll find out real fast how kind people are there. Answer: not very.

        I'm openly gay and Puerto Rican. Perhaps it's just you?
    • algoresstate
      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 12:26PM - in reply to A positive thread for once
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      • I've never been blown away by people in OK when visiting on business. But my one trip to TN was memorable for super nice, super cute TSA agents at the airport.
    • the430miler
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      • RE: Oklahoma: kindest people in the nation? 10/30/2018 1:12PM - in reply to A positive thread for once
      • the430miler
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      • Ya they are nice......until they find out you believe in evolution and you believe humans are part of the animal kingdom. Then they murder you with a gun.