Come on, I’ll be hard pressed to find a 50 year old anybody. The golden age for men is 26-37 in terms of physical appearance. Everything is downhill after 37.
Now if you’re talking about their wallets, that’s a different story. A fat old bald rich guy can still land a smoking hot gold digger (regular girls who aren’t gold diggers won’t go for that sh*t).
A fat old bald AND poor guy in his 40s? That’s pure garbage.
Be Real wrote:
Come on, I’ll be hard pressed to find a 50 year old anybody.
Correction: an attractive 50 year old anybody. That’s extremely rare, male OR female.
Be Real wrote:
Be Real wrote:
Come on, I’ll be hard pressed to find a 50 year old anybody.
Correction: an attractive 50 year old anybody. That’s extremely rare, male OR female.
Many of the top hot actors are 50 or older. A few of them are women but not too many.
Be Real wrote:
Come on, I’ll be hard pressed to find a 50 year old anybody. The golden age for men is 26-37 in terms of physical appearance. Everything is downhill after 37.
Now if you’re talking about their wallets, that’s a different story. A fat old bald rich guy can still land a smoking hot gold digger (regular girls who aren’t gold diggers won’t go for that sh*t).
A fat old bald AND poor guy in his 40s? That’s pure garbage.
What about a fat, not so attractive poor gals in her 40s? Wouldn't they go for a "fat, old, bald, poor guys in his 40s?"
Not all women in their 40s are slim, good looking and financially well off. None of the older, fat, bald, but rich guys are going want to have anything to do with them (because of their wealth they'll want hot gold diggers). So, that leaves old, ugly, poor guys like me to have a chance with a gal?
Homely Old & Poor Harry wrote:
What about a fat, not so attractive poor gals in her 40s? Wouldn't they go for a "fat, old, bald, poor guys in his 40s?"
Generally not, particularly if they aren't that poor. I know many long time single gals who have an inflated opinion of their looks and believe they can "do better" than the guys who show even a whisper of interest in them.
Dolly do better wrote:
Homely Old & Poor Harry wrote:
What about a fat, not so attractive poor gals in her 40s? Wouldn't they go for a "fat, old, bald, poor guys in his 40s?"
Generally not, particularly if they aren't that poor. I know many long time single gals who have an inflated opinion of their looks and believe they can "do better" than the guys who show even a whisper of interest in them.
Even the middle-aged, unattractive, overweight, saggy women? ?
On My Way Home From An All-Nighter wrote:
Dolly do better wrote:
Generally not, particularly if they aren't that poor. I know many long time single gals who have an inflated opinion of their looks and believe they can "do better" than the guys who show even a whisper of interest in them.
Even the middle-aged, unattractive, overweight, saggy women? ?
That's who I was talking about.
What about personality?
Having someone stick by you for money or looks is never a good thing.
I think men and women age the same. Without a good plastic surgeon or good genetics most people look like sh*t at 50. For any fat saggy old woman out there, there’s always another fat saggy old man to balance the equation.
Also, Brad Pitt looked waaaayyy better 12 years ago when his muscles were super firm and he didn’t have saggy skin.. and I bet you he also had work done with a skilled surgeon to look like he does right now. Bruce Willis and Sylvester Stallone look awful rn, but Helen Mirren or Meryl Streep don’t look anything like they did in their prime either.
Don’t kid yourself. We are ALL going to age, no one escapes the hands of time.
Y’all shallow AF wrote:
What about personality?
Having someone stick by you for money or looks is never a good thing.
I think men and women age the same. Without a good plastic surgeon or good genetics most people look like sh*t at 50. For any fat saggy old woman out there, there’s always another fat saggy old man to balance the equation.
Also, Brad Pitt looked waaaayyy better 12 years ago when his muscles were super firm and he didn’t have saggy skin.. and I bet you he also had work done with a skilled surgeon to look like he does right now. Bruce Willis and Sylvester Stallone look awful rn, but Helen Mirren or Meryl Streep don’t look anything like they did in their prime either.
Don’t kid yourself. We are ALL going to age, no one escapes the hands of time.
Still, he was over 40 even then.
Just a guess, but I would say its probably due to the lack of overall muscles in a women's body compared to a man's body. Fatty tissue doesn't appear to age as well as muscular tissue and women have a higher level of fatty tissue than men.
Because we have to. Younger dudes live a tormented life in which women control and toy with them effortlessly. Later the balance swings and that's natural karma.
Different perspective wrote:
in my early to mid-30s I think I definitely look better than at 25
My wife and I are both fairly fit and in our late 30's. She's had 3 kids and has remained very attractive. Me? Fitness can only take you so far. Hairy shoulders and back, pasty white skin, thinning graying hair...
better..or more? wrote:
Gender Studies wrote:
Easier to maintain testosterone than estrogen?
Discus
Women seem to age MORE...they live longer, you moran.
Eric Moran went to school with me. The Moran family lived down the street from me. Breaker Moran was a cool movie.
Moron = Moron!
Moran = Anglo Saxon name
Be Real wrote:
Be Real wrote:
Come on, I’ll be hard pressed to find a 50 year old anybody.
Correction: an attractive 50 year old anybody. That’s extremely rare, male OR female.
Ever hear of the Dereucks? Colleen Dereuck is 50+, and still pretty damn fast!
Men age better because if they are still having sex , they are having it with women younger than them. This apparently leads to dying younger than women on average anyway.
I agree with those saying it all boils down to what you have to offer the other gender at your age. When a guy is 50 he is more likely to have money, time to travel, and a lot of wisdom about where to go. He can speak from a place of confidence thanks to experience. Women like all that. Go look at their dating profiles and they will all say that they love to travel and are just looking for a man to share their journey. In high school girls just want to date an older guy with a car, then an older guy with a job, and then an older guy with wealth and means. And if you assume the man has all these things as he ages, then he doesn't need them in a partner, and will just look for the finest specimen he can get.
I think gender roles play into that stereotype and we'll see things balance out more in the coming years. Already women are beginning to have more means and men are beginning to appreciate travel or conversation.
Shoebacca wrote:
I agree with those saying it all boils down to what you have to offer the other gender at your age. When a guy is 50 he is more likely to have money, time to travel, and a lot of wisdom about where to go. He can speak from a place of confidence thanks to experience. Women like all that. Go look at their dating profiles and they will all say that they love to travel and are just looking for a man to share their journey. In high school girls just want to date an older guy with a car, then an older guy with a job, and then an older guy with wealth and means. And if you assume the man has all these things as he ages, then he doesn't need them in a partner, and will just look for the finest specimen he can get.
I think gender roles play into that stereotype and we'll see things balance out more in the coming years. Already women are beginning to have more means and men are beginning to appreciate travel or conversation.
Are you saying that ALL women like old guys with money? EW. I’m 25 and I’ll date 22-32 but not a 50 year old and rich. EW. That’s disgusting. I wouldn’t even touch a 39 year old guy with a 10 foot pole. Imagine white hair on the chest and god forbid, the balls!!! That’s super nasty!!! *puke*
Me and my girlfriends had this convo.. I just can’t bring myself to do anything with a 40yo guy and the same goes for all my gfs. Taking a 40yo to meet my friends or my parents?? Aw hell no!!!
And those girls in their 20s who are willing to date 40+ and rich? Those are gold diggers y’all. If you like gold diggers, more power to you.
But then on the reverse.. I think if I’m 40 I could def appreciate a fine young man of 30. All those at 45 will be nasty AF despite their wallets.. EW!
25yo female wrote:
Shoebacca wrote:
I agree with those saying it all boils down to what you have to offer the other gender at your age. When a guy is 50 he is more likely to have money, time to travel, and a lot of wisdom about where to go. He can speak from a place of confidence thanks to experience. Women like all that. Go look at their dating profiles and they will all say that they love to travel and are just looking for a man to share their journey. In high school girls just want to date an older guy with a car, then an older guy with a job, and then an older guy with wealth and means. And if you assume the man has all these things as he ages, then he doesn't need them in a partner, and will just look for the finest specimen he can get.
I think gender roles play into that stereotype and we'll see things balance out more in the coming years. Already women are beginning to have more means and men are beginning to appreciate travel or conversation.
Are you saying that ALL women like old guys with money? EW. I’m 25 and I’ll date 22-32 but not a 50 year old and rich. EW. That’s disgusting. I wouldn’t even touch a 39 year old guy with a 10 foot pole. Imagine white hair on the chest and god forbid, the balls!!! That’s super nasty!!! *puke*
Me and my girlfriends had this convo.. I just can’t bring myself to do anything with a 40yo guy and the same goes for all my gfs. Taking a 40yo to meet my friends or my parents?? Aw hell no!!!
And those girls in their 20s who are willing to date 40+ and rich? Those are gold diggers y’all. If you like gold diggers, more power to you.
But then on the reverse.. I think if I’m 40 I could def appreciate a fine young man of 30. All those at 45 will be nasty AF despite their wallets.. EW!
You're going to grow up to be one of those girls mentioned above.
After you get your sex change, dude.
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Just speaking the truth but you don’t like what you hear. Come on, I think that ZERO of my friends’ dads are cute, and they are within the range of 45-55. At that kinda age gap? Seriously, that’s gross AF. Plus the social stigma of having an OLD bf? Sorry can’t do it.
Some girls are social climbers, they want rich guys, maybe they could deal with rich and old but majority of NORMAL girls can’t. If you land a gold digger, be sure to WATCH YOUR BACK, she will always trade you in for someone richer and more of a sucker than you... just like you would trade her in for someone younger and hotter when she’s old, and she knows. If you’re going for money or arm-candy, that’s the deal you’re in for. That’s perspective for you.
25yo female wrote:
Just speaking the truth but you don’t like what you hear. Come on, I think that ZERO of my friends’ dads are cute, and they are within the range of 45-55. At that kinda age gap? Seriously, that’s gross AF. Plus the social stigma of having an OLD bf? Sorry can’t do it.
Some girls are social climbers, they want rich guys, maybe they could deal with rich and old but majority of NORMAL girls can’t. If you land a gold digger, be sure to WATCH YOUR BACK, she will always trade you in for someone richer and more of a sucker than you... just like you would trade her in for someone younger and hotter when she’s old, and she knows. If you’re going for money or arm-candy, that’s the deal you’re in for. That’s perspective for you.
Social stigma? It's considered more normal than same age partners.
Bottom line is you'll be single when older unless you get over your white chest and ball hair phobia.
If you think those fine 30 year olds are going to be interested in you at 40 plus , dream on. White ball hair has nothing on T and A sag.