I have a friend who's studying accounting. He's going to grad school for that.
He has no dreams other than to get a job that pays well, and then to raise a family. The only time he talks to me, he literally brings up my dreams and tries to shut it down.
Literally, we haven't seen each other in 3 months, and he calls me fat through texting. This was through a group chat too. I mean, I appreciate trash talking, but it's becoming pretty clear that he has nothing going for him. I never provoke insults. I know my capabilities, but every time I talk to him, he's trying to get me to self-doubt, or think twice about what I'm doing. Is this the kind of stuff you say to your "friends?" No, and this situation I have with him is twisted. Anyways, I follow Jesus' "turn the other cheek" thing and I want to see how far he'll treat me like crap. I don't know why I do it, and rather I could sever our friendship, but... we are a group of 5 friends and I can't do that to our whole friend group.
I still call him a "friend" but I wonder if friends are people that put you down, or bring you up.
Anyways LetsRun is full of critics and bitter people. Ugh.
My initial dream was to become a middle distance runner, but knowing the salary they make compared to other professional athletes, I chose to move on.
Boris Berian gave hope for athletes in Track and Field. Who makes $125,000 for running? Of course it's very niche, and if you pursue that kind of athletics, you gotta be prepared to be the best.
His story from humble beginnings also inspired me.
Now me? I've studied martial arts for 8 years, and committed running for 2 years. I have a few years left to get into professional sports until I apply myself with my college degree, but Berian inspired me to take the chance and go with it. You literally have nothing to lose.
The people that like to put others down - it's viable. Maybe they're coming from a logical point of view. But if you'd rather have Berian working at McDonalds for his whole life instead of him trying to do something with what he's got, then I'm getting the feeling that you like seeing people suffer and experience poor conditions.
And that is exactly the kind of mindset that my "friend" has. He has chosen a life of safety and comfort, with a career path he planned out for 10 years. And then he'll move up by kissing ass in the corporate world. Makes me sick.