I matched with a girl who lives about an hour away a few weeks ago. Just looking at her photos and profile kind of set me back a little, like, "Whoa, this one is different." We messaged quite a bit over the course of a few weeks and finally found time to meet up. I cleaned my car and my apartment in preparation, way more than I usually would, and that was kind of something I noted later about my behavior that apparently I knew this was going to be kind of a big deal before we ever even met. When we did meet, we hit it off really well right from the start and ended up spending 6 hours together! Conversation flowed effortlessly, and we just seem to be on the "same wavelength," something that almost NEVER happens with me. We're also the same age (I'm only 4 months older), which studies suggest is more conducive to long term happiness in relationships as people of the same age relate to each other better.
I've been thinking it all over since, and it all seems weird to me, almost like I know this is the girl. While that sounds very naive and juvenile, I have gone out with many, many women over the last 5 or so years, and I have never had that feeling before. It's not like a crush or infatuation; more like "this person feels like a true partner to me." I don't think I've ever felt quite like this before.
Anyone else had a similar experience? I'm about to turn 30 FWIW.