? For long time married couples. How many dates before xxx?

F on the first date wrote:

Any truth to the myth about not marrying anyone who sexes on the first date?

Asking for a friend.

Definitely a myth!

From my experiences, a girl who makes you wait too long is more likely to have issues than a girl who gives it up quickly.

I married my Filipina gf. Being a staunch catholic she wanted to save her virginity until marriage, so pre-nuptials we only did oral and anal. Second date was when I first invaded her rear. It’s still nice to this day!!

Subway Surfers wrote:

Sex on the first date though is unlikely to be a good grounding for a long marriage, where do you go from there?

You go from there to sex on the second date.

After third day of cross country practice. She’s now my wife.

Granted there’s a 26 year age difference...but we don’t care.

Hdsethjkkfdf wrote:

My wife and I had sex on our first date. We've been married for two decades.

My first wife we waited a year. Sex sucked and were divorced after 7 years.

Second wife we did it on the first date. Sex life is top notch. Been married 9 years and we are very happy. I’d never do anything to loose her.[/quote]

If you’re pounding her backdoor, it’s possibly getting loose.

Going by this thread, seems like the moral of this story is results will vary, everyone’s story is different.

I think it really depends. I get told frequently that I am very sexy and handsome (note the absence of compliments on my personality), and women I go out with very frequently want to F on the first date. Some make it clear before we even go out they want in my pants, and the variety of women this has been the case for makes me think that women can be opportunistic like men almost regardless of what they might claim about their habits or morals. I've been on dating apps where the woman says right in her bio that she's looking for a real relationship and to not contact her if you're just looking for a hookup, then she tells me I'm super hot and we end up just hooking up. It's happened with multiple women age 20-48 (I'm 30).

While all this is obviously nice a lot of the time, it does sometimes make me feel like I'm just a piece of meat to these women. It doesn't really bother me, but it does help me relate some to women who feel the same way. The best relationships (of any kind) I've had with women were either completely sex-free or started out that way for a lengthy period of time (think girl you work with and get to know for months before finally doing anything romantic). If marriage really is the goal, the relationship should not be based on sex/lust, and if you're having sex really early on with someone, it's impossible for the relationship to not be largely based on sex/lust.

Banged my wife on the first date. Married for +15yrs and still very happy.

She likes sex. So do I. That matters for us.

2nd date. If it didn’t happen by the third date I knew there was no future/chemistry and I would move on. We knew we’d get married when we woke up the next morning. Life’s too short to waste time. ***Also, def partner with another runner is the best advice I can give*** And don’t worry if one partner is way faster than the other. A runner will get you and be equally committed to maintaining a healthy lifestyle and making time to get your runs in.

3 months of dating then rabbit sex. 20years married very happily.

Pervert Coach wrote:

After third day of cross country practice. She’s now my wife.

Granted there’s a 26 year age difference...but we don’t care.

Ah, so Brad Hudson is on this board afterall.

Ha! Never shagged a freak I see.