zxcvzxcv wrote:
Smart coaches know that you need to motivate and coach different people in different ways. For some people, old-style is the best way, while for others, you need to show them some encouragement and others still, be their therapist.
Some people simply shut down when they are criticized. Are they soft? Yes. They are soft. You recruited them. Are you going to get the best out of them or not?
I think this is widely recognized as being true. Seems like you hear that consistently from championship winning coaches across all the sports.