When you are on your death bed, who will surround you and what will you think?
Option 1: I'm so glad I made an extra 50,000 a year when my kids were 5-6 so I could still afford nice dinners, fancy clothes, and finally buy that BMW. I understand my kids and grand kids are too busy to visit me, after all, I showed them the value of hard work and sometimes a few sacrifices must be made.
Option 2: I ate a lot of PB&J, drove that Civic until the wheels went square, but I did it all with my children. While I could never buy them a brand new car or afford to pay for college, they never knew hunger and I was always there for them watching them grow and succeed, watching them blaze a better path than me. They surround me, along with my grand-children, knowing that family comes first.
Sacrifices must be made and the piper must be paid one way or the other.
Go watch 'Click' before you make your decision, lol.