Time is the best teacher wrote:
Pissed off 800/1600 runner wrote:
I'm not in the wrong here, people.
Yes, you are. You'll understand when you're older (I hope).
Yep. He is wrong, and time will hopefully help him see that.
Teenagers think they know everything when in fact they know very very little. Takes time to be the boss of your life. When in high school, you have to do what teachers and coaches say. If you are in college, you have to do what professors say and what coaches say, or you will be not be successful. When you get your first post-college job, you need to do what your bosses at work say. If you ALWAYS have a boss, you need to do what your boss says. If you are married, you need to compromise and learn to come up with win-win solutions to problems. In almost no situation for the vast majority of people is it "my way or the highway".
Pissed off 800/1600 runner, your high school career has started off very shaky...quitting CC and then telling your coach that you won't try hard in a relay.
There was a kid like you on my son's HS team. This kid was two years older than my son and is now a D1 athlete, but as a freshman and to a lesser extent as a sophomore, he was disrespectful and not coachable. He changed his tune as he got older, and he got better too. By the time he was a senior, he needed his HS coach to put in a good word for him at a couple colleges that were interested in him. One college coach wasn't quite sure, but the HS coach let him know how much this kid had grown as a person in 4 years and that he would work to get better, etc. Well, that college coach gave him D1 scholarship money. Would not have happened without the HS coach's strong recommendation.
You have a lot to learn Pissed off 800/1600 runner. I hope you get there.