i know obviously I just have to get over my shyness but does anyone have any tips? Chicks at the gym always have ear buds in so it makes it hard
Anyone ever done it?
i know obviously I just have to get over my shyness but does anyone have any tips? Chicks at the gym always have ear buds in so it makes it hard
Anyone ever done it?
This has potential to be a hilarious thread. I will be following.
Jason88 wrote:
i know obviously I just have to get over my shyness but does anyone have any tips? Chicks at the gym always have ear buds in so it makes it hard
Anyone ever done it?
Yank out her darn earbuds and whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Gently clasp her hand and leave a slip of paper with your phone number in it as you let go. Wink seductively, then resume your workout (bench press or pull ups, preferably).
from first-hand experience I can confirm that offering unsolicited training tips does not work.
I now follow Nick Grantham's advice to the letter and, "train with intent," which means, stay focused on what you're really there for.
cheers.
"Chicks at the gym always have ear buds in so it makes it hard"
Guys get turned on by the weirdest things.
Jason88 wrote:
i know obviously I just have to get over my shyness but does anyone have any tips? Chicks at the gym always have ear buds in so it makes it hard
Anyone ever done it?
The earbuds are there for a reason. Maybe you should get the message.
Cottonshirt wrote:
from first-hand experience I can confirm that offering unsolicited training tips does not work.
If you are a puny runner, and she is an Athena goddess, you could ASK for tips and pretend to listen to her advice.
Or ask her to spot your bench. If she is running, ask her if she is training for a race.
Wait for the perspective cutie to dismount her spin bike and give the seat a whiff to let her know your interested!!
The trick is to find a girl who is fit now but USED to be fat. They still have the fat girl insecurity that you can possibly take advantage of. Look for stretch marks if she is wearing a tank.
elcapitainobviouso wrote:
The trick is to find a girl who is fit now but USED to be fat. They still have the fat girl insecurity that you can possibly take advantage of. Look for stretch marks if she is wearing a tank.
You can also farm fatties.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMUUZJ6aR64Paratone wrote:
Wait for the perspective cutie to dismount her spin bike and give the seat a whiff to let her know your interested!!
My goodness, I'd really like to know what other dating advice you've got.
It's actually rather easy. You just need
push-pull
jealousy plots
peacocking
negging
social proof
pre-selection
body-rocking
triangle gazing
kino
outcome independence
then>...instadate>...pull
If this doesn't work, it's back to your computer and your left hand.
That's a sign she wants you to ask what music she's listening to. Run on the treadmill next to her and ask if you can listen in the other ear bud. Then you can really make your move.
1. You'd never pull it off.
2. You'd have to essentially be "the mayor" of the gym, knowing the regulars, treating her like a regular and working on small talk for a few months.
3. You'd never pull it off.
I did meet my first superhot gf this way... however, not at a private gym and not girls with the fashion leggings, earbuds and studied indifference like you describe. It was at a sports oriented big public U. I trained very hard with the premier alpha group in the gym, 7500 point decathletes and worldclass TJ and 400h dudes...full disclosure lifting was my #1 sport and I held NJR at that time. Therefore my lifting was impressive even among this group and I caught the attention of superhot chick. She approached me during cooldown to ask some Qs about my comps.... and so it began.
Jason88 wrote:
i know obviously I just have to get over my shyness but does anyone have any tips? Chicks at the gym always have ear buds in so it makes it hard
Anyone ever done it?
Ask if you can bench the bar once she's done with it.
There are only three things you need to know to pull this off:
1. Be good looking
2. Don't be bad looking
3. Be attractive
I’ve seen it done on multiple occasions. If there’s a mutual attraction go up and tell her you’re impressed with her fitness. Could be a straight up lie but it breaks the ice and the rest is smooth sailing. For example if you make eye contact while staring at the same mirror, good chance it wasn’t on accident. For the people saying headphone girls are a no-go could it be they enjoy listening to music while exercising? I know that’s quite a stretch but just throwing it out there.
Jason88 wrote:
i know obviously I just have to get over my shyness but does anyone have any tips? Chicks at the gym always have ear buds in so it makes it hard
Anyone ever done it?
Go at the same time , and always have the same outfit. You will become familiar to others , and less of a threat. Bath before going to the gym, and if you drop a deuce before gym time, have another shower before. Don't ever smell like a$$.