Losing my girlfriend in college..

OP needs (1) mental health assistance and (2) massive volumes of masturbation. Come back and touch base here when your action-hand forearm looks like Popeye's, young padawan.

The guy would probably benefit from a counseling session through his college health center. Most colleges give them for free/tiny fee.

I don't think he's unstable. He's a teenager going through a breakup. He's acting pretty standard.

Harambe wrote:

I don't think he's unstable. He's a teenager going through a breakup. He's acting pretty standard.

This.

I'm pretty sure we've all been there too.

get over it wrote:

Real ahole move to hijack this guys thread when he's hurting and reaching out.

Real "TroubledRelatinship" I encourage you to continue seeking advice - it's healthy. But maybe register a quick name so you don't get hijacked by iimmature pricks like this...

TroubledRelationship wrote:

I'm so confused about my sexuality right now. I'm attracted to girls' faces and bodies. But I feel the need to be filled up. With penis.

I took his user ID because it was getting ridiculous. How many times can he keep posting the same stuff? It was starting to feel like it was just a troll. There's enough useful advice on this thread already. If the OP needs more help, he should talk to somebody.

If it were me, I would focus on making my life the best it can be. Go on some nice adventures and meet women elsewhere. Go hike in Patagonia or something. Take a climbing course. Make some goals like this. The world is to big to let one person get you down.

*The world is too big to let one person get you down.

That's what life is about. Sometimes it's about moving on and finding people who care about you. You'll meet thousands of people during your life. Just chill. If you want to be friends, it's fine. Learn to lower your expectations and chill.

I would appreciate it if the trolling could go some place else..seriously. This is my new account since someone took my name.

I am not going to kill myself guys, do not worry. I am just really upset and it is driving me crazy. I've spoken to close people in my life about this but I don't spill out all my emotions to them. This girl I really spilled out my emotions too. I guess I will take everyone's advice and not text her and just wait for her to text me. The only problem is, is that she wanted to stay in touch and I kind of shut down that idea when she brought it up. Do you think if I leave her alone for a while like I have been doing and not talk to her, she will text/call me? Or would she just figure im over it (which I'm clearly not)?

OGPosterNeedHelp wrote:

I am not going to kill myself guys, do not worry. I am just really upset and it is driving me crazy. I've spoken to close people in my life about this but I don't spill out all my emotions to them. This girl I really spilled out my emotions too. I guess I will take everyone's advice and not text her and just wait for her to text me. The only problem is, is that she wanted to stay in touch and I kind of shut down that idea when she brought it up. Do you think if I leave her alone for a while like I have been doing and not talk to her, she will text/call me? Or would she just figure im over it (which I'm clearly not)?

Go talk to a mental health professional and spill out all your emotions. They are used to it. They know how to deal with it. What you're experiencing, they have dealt with many times before. You will feel better when you spill out all your emotions with someone that is receptive and accustomed to such behavior. The common person is not, and they may not know how to react, even though there is nothing wrong with being emotional after a break up.

vivalarepublica wrote:

Go talk to a mental health professional and spill out all your emotions. They are used to it. They know how to deal with it. What you're experiencing, they have dealt with many times before. You will feel better when you spill out all your emotions with someone that is receptive and accustomed to such behavior. The common person is not, and they may not know how to react, even though there is nothing wrong with being emotional after a break up.

THIS

Your school offers counseling through their mental health services or something of the sort.

These people are trained to listen to you spill your emotions.

If that is what you want to do, that is the #1 best, healthiest, and most productive way to go about it.

Look it up online, ask your RA, call the health center, find a way to to go talk to someone. It will be a positive experience.

100% - regardless of "if she acts angry" - she will be most likely to want to see you the more you ignore her but...

Get this out of your head!! Have you been listening to us? You still have this false hope that somehow you'll end up together - I can tell you without a doubt that will NOT happen. I would put any amount of money on it.

Sure you might hang out - and if she's really drunk or has been dissed by the guy she actually likes she might even hook up with you - but it will be a one off then she'll be cold and distant and you'll start this misery all over again.

Please trust us!!!

8/10

If she is bringing this up she isn't happy with you. Don't worry about it. Move on.

did you cave?

Update?

99.9 percent this was a complete trolling mini masterpiece in fake breakup relationship drama to lure on unsuspecting emotionally weak LRC losers who have little real-world experience with the female species. If it is true then the OP is a f*g.

MAGA

Hey all, I've been having a bad time still and it's really hard. I haven't spoken to her in a little over a week. I've been using your advice and trying to hold off on talking to her even if I get a crazy urge to sometimes. I just wish she would god damn text me man

OGPosterNeedHelp wrote:

Hey all, I've been having a bad time still and it's really hard. I haven't spoken to her in a little over a week. I've been using your advice and trying to hold off on talking to her even if I get a crazy urge to sometimes. I just wish she would god damn text me man

You're better off if she doesn't text you.

Why do you want her to text you?

OGPosterNeedHelp wrote:

Hey all, I've been having a bad time still and it's really hard. I haven't spoken to her in a little over a week. I've been using your advice and trying to hold off on talking to her even if I get a crazy urge to sometimes. I just wish she would god damn text me man

I want her to text me so I can get back together with her eventually or to at least know she still thinks about me/cares about me. I am doing much better than I was a few days ago but I'm still pretty emotional about all this.