That is exactly my point. For many of us, everything is okay, until, of course, another person from this place attacks another 'jogger' and suggests a weight drop or that they may be too big or even small. For instance, the beating that Cain took here was dreadful.
My parents made few athletic demands. But the problem is not my motivation, but more the motivation of a 16er feeling like they can address the weight issues of anyone because they can run a 16.
And yes, at races I go to, I finish and then cheer on other finishers I don't even know for at least the next 30 minutes. Why? Because their race matters. So sure, please feel free to question my motivation as you celebrate your 16 with your mad buds in the beer garden trough. I'll regard those who appreciate their times and motivations more.
Mike
Obese America wrote:
Folks are overweight based on what the NIH defines as overweight. Medical issues are more prevalent when your BMI exceeds 25. 70% of the country. Pretty sad. Weight should be discussed more, not less.
It sounds like you may fit the profile of someone with psychological issues rooted from your childhood. Parents who demanded perfection.
Do you tell people who play rec basketball they'll never be as good as Steph Curry, why work on your jump shot?
And do you tell weekend golfers on the driving range to stop working on their swing, you'll never be Tiger Woods?
You can't relate to the motivation of others. Or, possibly, you've hit your potential as a runner and you're unhappy how it stacks up against others.
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