Which is worse: finding out a girl smokes, or finding out she has tattoos?

Backwards world wrote:

Big Don wrote:

I dont know what it is but even when I watch porn the minute I see a chick has tattoos my arousal drops and I have to find something better. Just a total trashy turnoff for me.

You watch porn and think you're in a place to judge if someone is trashy? Classic.

Classy people watch classy porn.

Smoker, easily, because it's actually a deal breaker.

Also, for clarification. By smoking do you mean one or two with a beer at a bar on the weekend, or do you mean half a pack a day? And with tattoos, do you mean arm sleeve or huge monstrosity covering large portion of the body, or one or two smaller ones that wouldn't be seen in anything but a bikini?

Smoker is worse, because all smokers also have tattoos, but some people have tasteful tattoos and don't smoke.

Regular Poster wrote:

Which is worse: finding out a girl smokes, or finding out she has tattoos? Both are dealbreaker's for me, but smokes is worse for sure.

Neither is as big a turn off as misusing the apostrophe.

Finding out she has herpes.

My opinion: Smoking

First it tells you she does not take care of herself.

Second, the smell

you can quit smoking wrote:

The thing with tattoos is that you'll always be reminded that she got that for some other guy.

You think girls get tattoos only for guys? You guys need to get out more.

You can stop smoking. But the kind of gal that gets a tramp stamp, well....

Also, if they are smoking it's pretty good odds that they also have a tattoo.

Finding out she is pregnant.

Tattoo are worse, trust me on this.

The desire to get a tattoo comes from a much worse place psychologically than the place where the smoking comes from. One of these can be fixed the other cannot.

Those of you on this board with tattoos will be mad and I'm sorry.

Finding out she voted for Trump. I'd rather find out she did porn.

Obviously if you had to find out she had tattoos they really aren't noticable

Tattoo = unique individual wrote:

Regular Poster wrote:

Which is worse: finding out a girl smokes, or finding out she has tattoos? Both are dealbreaker's for me, but smokes is worse for sure.

Smoking is worse by far. Tattoos are great. They make one a unique individual that stands out from the crowd. People without tattoos are boring sheep. Plus, as someone else suggested a woman with a tattoo increases the chances of three hole action which only beta-males don't like.

"[T]hree hole action" - tells a lot. I suppose a guy who likes fecal matter on his pen*s is more likely to think highly of a tattoo. Do you also delight in golden showers?

Tattoo = unique individual wrote:

Regular Poster wrote:

Which is worse: finding out a girl smokes, or finding out she has tattoos? Both are dealbreaker's for me, but smokes is worse for sure.

Smoking is worse by far. Tattoos are great. They make one a unique individual that stands out from the crowd. People without tattoos are boring sheep. Plus, as someone else suggested a woman with a tattoo increases the chances of three hole action which only beta-males don't like.

I've never seen a tattoo that clearly, to me, enhanced someone's looks. Never.

As for your sexual values... do you also make your woman (not wife?) (you sound so déclassé) submit to an*l and then make her go or*al on you without washing? Do you live in a pigsty?

Jfhrj effed wrote:

Finding out she voted for Trump. I'd rather find out she did porn.

logic error here. Trump-voting women are attracted to men, therefore she would not be attracted to you, therefore not your girlfriend.

Good thread OP!!!

My entire life, I've dated conservative girls and women. Girls I met at school or college. Women I met at church or med. school. Last year, I went to a bar after work with some colleagues. I ended up talking to one of the women who worked at the bar. She was incredible and unlike any woman I've ever dated. She was fun. We came from very different backgrounds. For example, she dropped out of high school and I'm a GP. We didn't talk about work or politics. I ended up going home with her. 8 months later we're still together. My family hates her. My parents say she is rude - which actually means she is honest. Anyway, when we met, she had 7 tattoos. I've never dated anyone with a tattoo. Now she has 12 tattoos. And I have 5. And I love it.

HoustonMD wrote:

My entire life, I've dated conservative girls and women. Girls I met at school or college. Women I met at church or med. school. Last year, I went to a bar after work with some colleagues. I ended up talking to one of the women who worked at the bar. She was incredible and unlike any woman I've ever dated. She was fun. We came from very different backgrounds. For example, she dropped out of high school and I'm a GP. We didn't talk about work or politics. I ended up going home with her. 8 months later we're still together. My family hates her. My parents say she is rude - which actually means she is honest. Anyway, when we met, she had 7 tattoos. I've never dated anyone with a tattoo. Now she has 12 tattoos. And I have 5. And I love it.

Any openings at that Chucky Cheese where you work ?

Three things: 1) I'm a GP in a clinic with 6 other doctors. My practice is thriving. With a little help from my parents as a graduation present, I paid off my mortgage 2 years ago. I suspect that annual income is greater than what you make in 10 years.

2) I will admit one thing - the other GPs in the clinic have asked that I keep my girlfriend away from the clinic. She usually shows up a couple of hours before the end of my day and hangs out in the office or the waiting room. My colleagues are incredibly uptight - always complaining about her clothes, her language around the patients or other assorted behaviour. I don't tell them how to live their lives, they should butt out of mine. This is causing huge problems. I'm thinking about setting up a practice on my own. I will take a financial hit, but it will be worth it.

2) I actually went to Chucky Cheese with my girlfriend and her two sons last month. She doesn't have custody of the kids, so they're rarely around. The larger point is, if you opened your mind to what is out there you may find, as I diid, that hanging out with boring college types will always get old. I have a conventionally respectful job I do during the day, but I can't wait to get home and have some fun with my wild child. Life is too short to be defined by conventional rules set by others.