I'm in my mid 40's, Republican, white male, married to an HISPANIC woman for almost 20 years. We live in a nice neighborhood in Fairfax County, Virginia, just outside of Washington DC.
Of the neighbors I know who are Republican supporters, NONE have signs in the yard supporting Republican candidates due to the threat of vandalism and/or violence. Zero.
The Democrat supporters have no such problems and proudly display their signs. They are safe. Republicans do not vandalize property.
Many, many of the bleached-blonde soccer moms in my neighborhood have the "Hate has no place here" and "Love Trumps hate" signs. These women in many cases have known my wife for 10+ years. Do you think they invite my pretty, well-educated, Hispanic wife over for coffee, or sit with her at soccer games, or ask her opinion at PTA meetings, or ask if she wants to go to their yoga groups, or chat with her at the grocery store? Nope. Negative. However -- They are quick to ask if she can babysit their kids or if she can help them get a "good deal on maid services." These leftist liberals are the biggest hypocrites you can possibly imagine. Their soy-latte drinking husbands are no different.
Now let's have some contrast. The mostly American/white Christian church we attend (full of "white supremacists" as the Dems call us) has been nothing but wonderful to my wife and family for a decade. They love her to death and she's involved in a number of their social circles. We consider them to be part of our big, extended family. The kind, compassionate, silent majority.
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