Obeservations of a divorcee

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Open for discussion wrote:

Divorced men are sad, lonely and insecure. Instead of learning from their past mistakes, they use women to buttress their faultering self esteem. They tend to make gross generalizations about the opposite sex that have no basis in reality. They are damaged both emotionally and spiritually. They should be pitied

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50 shades of one nighters wrote:

I am not an unattractive man. I am in my mid forties, hold a powerful position, make good money, and happen to have a very nice apt and car. Ive been divorced for a couple of years now, and following a year or so of alone time and grieving, have spent 2016 sampling a wide variety of women. The following are my observations:
1. Most women are gold diggers
2. Older professional women are less likely to have any expectations beyond casual encounters.
3. Women in their early twenties are unsatisfting sexually due to the inexperience factor, but are good for the ego when needed.
4 Women in their late twenties and early thirties are the most satisfying and open to sexual experimentation, AKA the 50 shades of grey effect.
5. Women of color are fun once in a while but the life experiences and social stigma are very difficult to overcome.
6. Latin women are IMHO the most attractive and sexually exciting but go nuts at the drop of a hat.
7. All women are crazy, but the degree and intensity of crazy is directly proportional to the crazy of sex they will pour on a man.

Im taking all matters of inquiry or discussion.

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mustang wrote:

what is your basis for that statement "I am not an unattractive man" especially when "most women are gold diggers" as you say

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itsnotjustmen wrote:

Define "powerful."

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50 shades of one nighters wrote:

I am not an unattractive man. I am in my mid forties, hold a powerful position, make good money, and happen to have a very nice apt and car. Ive been divorced for a couple of years now, and following a year or so of alone time and grieving, have spent 2016 sampling a wide variety of women. The following are my observations:
1. Most women are gold diggers
2. Older professional women are less likely to have any expectations beyond casual encounters.
3. Women in their early twenties are unsatisfting sexually due to the inexperience factor, but are good for the ego when needed.
4 Women in their late twenties and early thirties are the most satisfying and open to sexual experimentation, AKA the 50 shades of grey effect.
5. Women of color are fun once in a while but the life experiences and social stigma are very difficult to overcome.
6. Latin women are IMHO the most attractive and sexually exciting but go nuts at the drop of a hat.
7. All women are crazy, but the degree and intensity of crazy is directly proportional to the crazy of sex they will pour on a man.

Im taking all matters of inquiry or discussion.

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50 shades of one nighters wrote:

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mustang wrote:

what is your basis for that statement "I am not an unattractive man" especially when "most women are gold diggers" as you say

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Excellent question.
Not unattractive is a modest way of saying that im very handsome.
In context of the gold digger, i have had the opportunity to perform a few social experiments in which i have been slumming it with t-shirts, ball cap, etc and have replied to the typical "what do you do?" question with saying that i have a minimum wage job, only to get a cold shoulder.

Once I left the place at the same time as the cold fish and when she saw my car, it was a complete 180. "Do you want my number?"
Another time when i went to the rest room, the bartender, whom i know, told her i who i was. It took me about 30 seconds to realize what had happened, especially when he was laughing at her backpedaling.

To the other question, ill just say that am in "management" and have several thousand people under me.

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50 shades of one nighters wrote:

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mustang wrote:

what is your basis for that statement "I am not an unattractive man" especially when "most women are gold diggers" as you say

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Excellent question.
Not unattractive is a modest way of saying that im very handsome.
In context of the gold digger, i have had the opportunity to perform a few social experiments in which i have been slumming it with t-shirts, ball cap, etc and have replied to the typical "what do you do?" question with saying that i have a minimum wage job, only to get a cold shoulder.

Once I left the place at the same time as the cold fish and when she saw my car, it was a complete 180. "Do you want my number?"
Another time when i went to the rest room, the bartender, whom i know, told her i who i was. It took me about 30 seconds to realize what had happened, especially when he was laughing at her backpedaling.

To the other question, ill just say that am in "management" and have several thousand people under me.

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Kdndjdjejejd wrote:

I'm a man who's never getting married. Why stick your tongue in the governments a-hole, with a contract where there's nothing to gain and a lot to lose for a man? Why do you think all women want to marry? It benefits them immensely. They manipulate men into marriage. I will not be manipulated into any marriage contract. I'm never getting married.

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50 shades of one nighters wrote:

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Kdndjdjejejd wrote:

I'm a man who's never getting married. Why stick your tongue in the governments a-hole, with a contract where there's nothing to gain and a lot to lose for a man? Why do you think all women want to marry? It benefits them immensely. They manipulate men into marriage. I will not be manipulated into any marriage contract. I'm never getting married.

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Although im sure there are good ones out there, in general i agree. Neverget married.
As to the post above., i do own a lake house where i allow my ex to live as part of our settlement. I choose to rent as i have been trying different places. Right now i live in a loft across from the aforementioned watering hole.
My ex is still single and laments our split.
Im definitely an alpha albeit in a GQ, confident, take contol kinda way, as opposed to the muscle head peacock variety...although I've quit running due to knee issues and started lifting since my divorce.

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You're a decent troll wrote:

I don't know where you're from, but I am in my early twenties and NONE of the girls I know or have affiliated with at all, would engage in anything with a creepy dude in his 40's. Maybe it's just the southeast, but my ex now in NYC is 23 and doesn't date over 28. College girls/recent grads who are worth anything don't go for dudes in their 40's...regardless of financial status.

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You're a decent troll wrote:

How does that make me an idiot? That I'm from a decent, affluent community and background that lends me to knowing/affiliating with girls who aren't into guys over 20 years older than them when they're recently out of school? I have no idea where you're from, but clearly our backgrounds have very different expectations and values.

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