Everyone I work has commented on how much weight my female coworker has lost. She was always thin and fit but now I would guess her to be well under 100 lbs. Now my supervisor wants me to talk with her to see she has any problems (anorexia).
I thought a few month ago she looked really bad she was so skinny (and I like skinny women) but lately she still looks to skinny but seems healthier and tone. She exercises a ton.
I know her well professionally but we don't do anything outside of work together and we don't share personal thoughts (we are both married).
Today we were at a large meeting and lunch was served but she didn't want to eat with everybody so we went back to my office to eat. She ate well during lunch.
I think she would be insulted and hurt if I said anything to her, so far I haven't.
Suggestion?