Back in 77 wrote:
You will, or already have, dreams where they are present and you are very happy to see them - only to be severely disappointed when you awake and realize it was a dream. Over the years these dreams will become fewer and farther between.
I have had several of those dreams already. The very first dream I had involved my father sitting in my mom's favorite chair on our porch crying and telling me that he couldn't do this without my mom. It was a very powerful dream that I have taken to mean that my parents were happier passing together than they would be living without the other one.
They were high school sweethearts and had been married for 48 years, I guess it is a positive for them that they never have to know the pain of being without the other one, but the selfish side of me wishes I still had at least one of them around.