Is a kiss on the first date expected or a bad move

brofest2016 wrote:

Had a really good first date, went from about 6pm until 11pm, started out sharing a bottle of wine than going to another place for another 2 rounds of drinks. Had a really good time, she said she wanted to hangout again, felt a connection. Walked to the subway, went in for a kiss, made out for a little (nothing super passionate but definitely didn't turn away) then went our ways. What does the LRC community think? She is going to be traveling for two weeks so guess will have to wait to find out but that is part of the reason why I went in for it since I didn't want to like drag things out over this time period.

If it is the girl you are going to marry, then I would wait.

If it is more of a fling-to-medium-term relationship, have at it.

damn, I actually really liked her, I could see myself dating her pretty seriously.

Don't sweat it. All is not lost :-)

I just wanted to let her know i really liked her and figured what did i have to lose. If she was flattered or liked me great, if not life goes on

pics?

Expected with so much alcohol involved.

Well you already did it, it went well and it seems like given how the night began, developed and how the aftermath was, the kiss was both extremely appropriate, expected and well received, EOT

cool, thanks for the advice

If interested go in for a kiss on the first date. She may or may not accept. Likely has more to do with alcohol intake than interest if she does or doesn't.

If you haven't by the end of the second date, do not go on a third.

a lot of sage advice

To the OP: If you're over 14 years old and making your post, you should be ashamed.....and castrated.

Captain Condom - Do Gooder wrote:

To the OP: If you're over 14 years old and making your post, you should be ashamed.....and castrated.

He isat least 21 --out for drinks.

Congratulations little one, you kissed a girl. We are all proud of you.

brofest2016 wrote:

Had a really good first date, went from about 6pm until 11pm, started out sharing a bottle of wine than going to another place for another 2 rounds of drinks. Had a really good time, she said she wanted to hangout again, felt a connection. Walked to the subway, went in for a kiss, made out for a little (nothing super passionate but definitely didn't turn away) then went our ways. What does the LRC community think? She is going to be traveling for two weeks so guess will have to wait to find out but that is part of the reason why I went in for it since I didn't want to like drag things out over this time period.

Sounds like a good move. Maybe she'll be thinking about you now when she's away. Good move

Did you pull on the the top of her thong? This lets a woman know you're interested.

My advice is to always ask or at least announce your intentions. Announcing is seen as more bold, asking is more 'sweet.' Depends on how the date is going. I have never once been turned down when I said, "I'm going to be bold and go for a goodnight kiss."

Have some confidence, people. But don't be a dick.

Romeo wrote:

My advice is to always ask or at least announce your intentions. Announcing is seen as more bold, asking is more 'sweet.' Depends on how the date is going. I have never once been turned down when I said, "I'm going to be bold and go for a goodnight kiss."

Have some confidence, people. But don't be a dick.

Never ask for a kiss... weak.

I went on a first date with a girl pretty spontaneously, had two beers and then went for a nice walk around the city. At the end I didn't really feel the kiss, so I didn't go for it. I think it was good and built some tension for the 2nd date. The second date though was basically all afternoon and there were a few moments I should've gone for it since we were really vibing. Then went back to her place for a movie and I got really tired, she basically initiated the kissing. So that's a weak move on my part.

Key is to not force it just because you think that's how it's done. Basically just enjoy the time together and then when you feel something deep down, just go for it. Otherwise you're acting on other peoples' ideas of what you should do, instead of your own.

brofest2016 wrote:

Had a really good first date, went from about 6pm until 11pm, started out sharing a bottle of wine than going to another place for another 2 rounds of drinks. Had a really good time, she said she wanted to hangout again, felt a connection. Walked to the subway, went in for a kiss, made out for a little (nothing super passionate but definitely didn't turn away) then went our ways. What does the LRC community think? She is going to be traveling for two weeks so guess will have to wait to find out but that is part of the reason why I went in for it since I didn't want to like drag things out over this time period.

Dude, you're sick. This liberal agenda has gone too far. What you and your mom do together is my business. Please stop.

Good advisor guy wrote:

brofest2016 wrote:

Had a really good first date, went from about 6pm until 11pm, started out sharing a bottle of wine than going to another place for another 2 rounds of drinks. Had a really good time, she said she wanted to hangout again, felt a connection. Walked to the subway, went in for a kiss, made out for a little (nothing super passionate but definitely didn't turn away) then went our ways. What does the LRC community think? She is going to be traveling for two weeks so guess will have to wait to find out but that is part of the reason why I went in for it since I didn't want to like drag things out over this time period.

Dude, you're sick. This liberal agenda has gone too far. What you and your mom do together is my business. Please stop.

To be fair, my parents were divorced and I was raised by my dad so I barely even know her, but I can see what my dad saw in her back in the day...