My dad made six figures in a part of the country where half that would have been plenty to live comfortably. When my parents were married, my mom was a spendaholic but only really spent the money on herself. She'd spent literally thousands of dollars per year on clothes, eating out, giving money to friends and her church, etc, but would complain about doing anything for me, even if it was just giving me money for gas so I could drive myself to track practice.
My parents got divorced, partly because of my mothers uncontrollable spending habits, and she then burned through about $250,000 she got from my dad through the divorce. Now she's damn near broke and will be retiring later this year and has pretty much demanded that I take care of her the rest of my life. She also happens to be retiring early at age 62...
My own thoughts on all of this are probably not too hard to guess, but I want to hear from letsrun. How would you feel? What would you do?
Also as one last bit of info, I was able to live on $1600/month in her town when I lived there. She went through the $250k in 5 years while working full time at her own job.