Odd Tinder Experience

Nobody goes on Tinder because they want to make platonic friends. It's just something stupid that everyone puts in their profile to come across as less thirsty.

ahjhsjdf wrote:

Kinda confused by this one, do girls with boyfriends really go on tinder looking for friends?

lol nope

dolt detector wrote:

fastrunnerBen wrote:

I have caught several friends with boy friends on TINDER!!!!!!! I never confronted them. Also, girls have done this to me all the time. They all of a sudden stop texting...or claim to have a boy friends. seen it happen a million times. Women are just evil sometimes. plain evil. and hot women think their entitled.

And men don't do the same?

You misogynist idiot.

Yes, dolt detector, in general men are just as "evil", at least young men, as some of us grow up a bit eventually. There is a cultural difference, though. Many girls become "hot" when they are teenagers as young as 15, and learn to play manipulative emotional games very early on.

Most guys don't have a crowd of ladies chasing after them until they've earned some status and money, or at least are clearly headed in that direction. By then they might be 18-20 and in college, certainly not 15, and that small age difference is significant. A slight trace of maturity may have somehow trickled into their heads already, at least in a few cases.

Actually just invited a girl from tinder over for dinner. Never met her and she is coming. I'll update later on how it goes. I have my expectations set extremely low because its tinder. Plus she has a picture of her doing a half marathon, sooooo slow though.

ahjhsjdf wrote:

In the meantime I searched for her on Facebook and it turned out she had a boyfriend of 3 years and was still in a relationship with him. Obviously this was a huge red flag but I was curious to see if she'd bring it up first.

Just because there's a goalie it doesn't mean you can't score!

ahjhsjdf wrote:Guess this isn't that odd cause it happens to me more often than not but here's the situation...

moron

you never figured there was a 700-pound white gorilla lurking ?!

What quality of people do you expect to find in Tinder? I can imagine what kind of person you are ....

She is looking to be validated.

She will end up cheating, just a matter of time.

MustTrainNow wrote:

It's pretty obvious what was happening - she probably had a blowout fight with her boyfriend, went on Tinder and started flirting with you, then they made up and she felt no need to flirt with you. She was using you as a possible rebound until the boyfriend came back in the picture.

This is how the female mind works. Take note.

omg serious? wrote:

ahjhsjdf wrote:

In the meantime I searched for her on Facebook and it turned out she had a boyfriend of 3 years and was still in a relationship with him. Obviously this was a huge red flag but I was curious to see if she'd bring it up first.

That's not a red flag. That's excellent. She wasn't using Tinder for a relationship and neither should you.

She got a few fish on the hook. You were one of those fish. After seeing you were not the best fish she had on the hook she cut you loose.

She banged the hell out of another fish.

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She's AT MOST cheating on her boyfriend. She's at least flirting for some side fun. Neither is new or unique to one gender or another. You could have some fun and never see her again, or be "right." Which one is preferrable?

pop_pop!_v2.2.1 wrote:

omg serious? wrote:

That's not a red flag. That's excellent. She wasn't using Tinder for a relationship and neither should you.

She got a few fish on the hook. You were one of those fish. After seeing you were not the best fish she had on the hook she cut you loose.

She banged the hell out of another fish.

Read more:

http://www.letsrun.com/forum/flat_read.php?thread=7554266#ixzz4GQUYBgEo

She's AT MOST cheating on her boyfriend. She's at least flirting for some side fun. Neither is new or unique to one gender or another. You could have some fun and never see her again, or be "right." Which one is preferrable?

Don't stick your dick in crazy.

It's Tinder. Basically facilitates the ability to be flirtatious and then disappear. None if this should be a surprise.

dontjudgemeorrobme wrote:

Actually just invited a girl from tinder over for dinner. Never met her and she is coming. I'll update later on how it goes. I have my expectations set extremely low because its tinder. Plus she has a picture of her doing a half marathon, sooooo slow though.

Was she Kathy Ireland or Kathy Bates? (Wait, because you are probably too young for that reference, I'll explain it. Kathy Ireland used to be a hot model, Kathy Bates still is an old fat actress who scared the living daylights out of every runner now in their 40s-50s back in 1990 in the movie Misery when she broke James Caan's ankles with a sledge hammer.)

So, hot or not? We know the answer to if you hit it or not--it is Tinder, of course you hit it.