Men, is it true that most guys have another man in their life that they have a strong affection for and willing to experiment sexually with? Husband just asked if I'd be open to threesome with one of his friends.
He claims most (and maybe all) men have another man that they'd bang but wouldn't consider themselves gay. He showed me Craigslist ads and there is a large population of married men seeking other men for sex. I don't know what to think now.
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Not me fam
Not most men, but your hubby is definitely a closet fudge packer
Absolutely not true.
And if he's asking he's already doing it on the side.
And Craigslist? Really? What year is it again? And as if that site is at all representative of the population at large?
If this is even remotely true, I think you should buy a strapon and ask him to let you use it on him. And you can assess how easily it slips in the first time.
Lots of gay men get married thinking it will stop it. It doesn't. It just drives it underground into the seemy world of CL hookups. Straight men don't want d!ck. Monogamous men don't want anyone besides you unless there has been PNSO.
If this post is real, it's out there now and can't be unsaid. He wants others. He wants men. If you shut it down it will always be there, a resentment, an itch you can't scratch. If you say yes it won't stop anyway.
Think long and hard: You have three choices:
- Say no and have him shove it back down and be depressed and resentful ... or sneak around Craigslist and other places.
- Embrace it and become polyamorous and maybe bi yourself.
- Go find a better man who can give you monogamy and straight desire.
Sorry if this is blunt, but my ex wife is gay and it sucked. Look up straightspouse.org
If you are actually a man having these feelings and looking for affirmation or permission, do your poor wife a favor and come clean. Let her go live her life.
You better be thinking about divorce and nothing else.
Straight Spouse wrote:
Monogamous men don't want anyone besides you
That doesn't actually exist.
OP, why aren't you posting as TxRunnerGirl any longer?
Men Have Bisexual Tendencies? wrote:
Men, is it true that most guys have another man in their life that they have a strong affection for and willing to experiment sexually with? Husband just asked if I'd be open to threesome with one of his friends.
Many men do, often because they were forcibly sexually abused by men as children, long before they had any idea of what was happening, then from that very confused past they grew up thinking something was wrong with them and not knowing anything else.
As a forcibly raped child, outwardly I was very angry about this, but until I expressed the issue openly verbally many decades later with a woman friend, and even though I was furious about it, the early incidents did affect my thinking to some degree sexually. Fortunately due to my repulsion I never came anywhere close to having a sexual encounter with a man past being forced to do so as a child.
Expressing my anger outwardly with my friend helped me to verbalize and internally see and feel how I truly felt more completely, and for the first time was able to openly say that my dad was a child molester and a pedophile. One of the things that kept me from expressing this was my mom's constant denial of what he had done. What changed this was, after discussing with my friend, during a phone conversation with my mom I directly told her of exactly what he did to me when I was 11 years old, of how he held my head and pushed me down, the horrenduous taste, of the many reasons why I hated him through my life. For the first time EVER she cried, finally understood what had happened to me, and she said "now I understand" why I always hated him and we never got along.
A few days after this happened I was finally able to say "my dad was a child molester and a pedophile!" Her denies, and my keeping the information to myself, were the reasons why it had not come to the surface before that, even though my hatred for him had been there the whole time. I am clear 100 percent in mind and body, am and always will be only attracted to women.
Men are 400 to 1 more likely to be child molesters then women.
Bigger Guy wrote:
Not me fam
This.
lolololol wrote:
Straight Spouse wrote:Monogamous men don't want anyone besides you
That doesn't actually exist.
Pretty cool. You replied with an incorrect statement to try to rebut what was also an incorrect statement.
Well done!
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Did you ever go on that "date" with your wife's friend?? (I suspect you're the same troll.)