Taking my wife's best friend out on a date?

Sounds like a great idea, especially if it can help her gain confidence in dating men. Obviously everybody know the boundaries and will adhere to them. Enjoy the meal and conversation. Big ups to you for helping her out.

True story:

My now ex-wife told me her best friend thought I was hot. Ex-Wife encouraged this. Even giving "permission" to have sex with her friend. I said no way and that we needed to get into couples therapy. Of course, ex wife back peddles and says "oh, I am just joking around."

About a month later, ex-wife reveals she is in an affair and wants a divorce.

So in case the OP is not a troll, I suggest be very careful.

Post the Star Wars meme "it's a trap".

Beware.

old time fan wrote:

9.99/10

I almost gave you a perfect ten but alas is there ever a perfect troll job?

A+ to the gent that introduced us to the Honk Kong Sleepover term!

No. Everything about the post was totally unbelievable and only showed the OP knows nothing about women and has likely never even been on a date. A good troll needs an element of believability.

I suppose some marks as the target audience has also never been on a date.

1.5/10

I think it's a semi-troll. I assume that he and his wife actually had a discussion about how she needed to go on a date with a nice guy "like you." That night the OP got off either manually or with help from his wife thinking about the best friend. And, then came in and posted it changing it into the original thread.

Who cares if it was fake? It was an extremely entertaining thread.

OP is probably not even married at this point. Here's the deal: His wife, probably five years ago, mentioned "I wish we could find a nice man for Beth." Six months later she bounced off with a lifter, sick of feeling her overly skinny husband's ribs every time they boned. After the divorce he just couldn't stop dreaming of Beth and how HE is the nice man for her. He wanks to the fantasy every night, and embellished it over time in his mind. He's curious as to what might have happened, if only... Alas, Beth won't talk to him anymore, and anyway she gained like 30 lbs since then. But it's still a good fantasy. So he came here and dropped his metaphorical deuce on us.

And there's nothing wrong with that. 10/10 in my book.

Wow. What a night! The date started out rather awkward, we met at an upscale seafood place. My wife's friend was a good sport, we had a bottle of Rose and kept the conversation light. She talked about her prior dates and relationships- they were either married men or rich older guys looking for a score. I got to admit my wife's friend was looking hot- she wore a tight outfit, short skirt, heels and showed plenty of cleavage. I tried to play it cool and detached.

She offered to split the bill, but I told her that I would handle it. She suggested that we hit a "happening" spot afterwards. I didn't know of any since my wife and I don't go out that much. She had a twinkle in her eye. She suggested a bar down the street from the restaurant, it happened to be ladies night, we did a shot of tequila and grabbed me by the hand and pulled me out to the dance floor. She danced seductively to some techno mix I never heard before but her hands were all over me, I was weak, I grabbed her, perhaps it was the alcohol (I'm a lightweight) and kissed her hard. She did not pull away. She cooed in my ear to go back to her place, I said that couldn't do that. I love my wife and would never cheat on her. She was clearly disappointed but then suggested that we head back to my place and tell my wife about the date sans the kissing part, haha. I said, "sure" it would put my wife at ease. They seem to enjoy each other's company.

We arrive at my house and my wife is eager to hear from us about the date. She offers her friend a glass of wine. I grab a beer and excuse myself for a moment. They went to the living room and her friend started detailing the dinner date details. She complemented me for being a gentleman, my wife then looked back at me with a big smile. They were laughing and playfully pushing against each other- hmmm, never noticed that before.

They motioned me over from the other coach. Next thing you know and I swear to God that this is true, they started to make out with each other. I'm in total shock. Whoa, what's going on here? My wife then looks at me intently and says, "honey, do you want my friend tonight?" I go, "huh, what is this?" She comes over to me with that "look" as in I want you to do me now, look. She whispered into my ear, we both want to do you. I look back at her friend, she's already taking her shoes off. Uh oh, this is really happening.

I had my first ever threesome and it was fantastic. I was Hef, I was a rockstar, I was a lead singer in a rock n roll band- damn I still can't believe it. I'm at the office now and can't get any work done my wife is happy, her friend is happy and I'm confused. What happens next?

What happens next?

Your wife realizes she is a lesbian and leaves you. You lose the house, 50% of your savings and have to pay her alimony.

It's not unusual wrote:

Wow. What a night!

The above is 100% absolutely unequivocally not me. To those asking, yes my wife's friend knows about this and my wife says she would be willing to try a few dates. I haven't had any direct communication with the friend about this. To those saying my wife is already cheating; doubtful. We have a good marriage, are happy together, fulfilled in every way. And I don't think she's baiting me. She's not into head games, never has been. Neither of us is the jealous type anyway. It's a day later and I'm still at a bit of a loss about what to do, but am leaning towards doing this but with very clear rules that everybody agrees to together, in person, with a predetermined number of dates that we will not exceed no matter what. Does that make sense?

Female here. I'd say, don't do this. The only way I would have ever suggested such a thing to an SO is if I was already out of love and looking for a way out the door. If I'm still into you, no WAY am I going to suggest you go on date-like expeditions with other women.

Good luck.

F Her on your bed and then ask your wife if she has any other friends she wants you to date. Your wife is an idiot- that's a slippery slope if Ive ever heard of oe.

It's not unusual wrote:

The above is 100% absolutely unequivocally not me. To those asking, yes my wife's friend knows about this and my wife says she would be willing to try a few dates. I haven't had any direct communication with the friend about this. To those saying my wife is already cheating; doubtful. We have a good marriage, are happy together, fulfilled in every way. And I don't think she's baiting me. She's not into head games, never has been. Neither of us is the jealous type anyway. It's a day later and I'm still at a bit of a loss about what to do, but am leaning towards doing this but with very clear rules that everybody agrees to together, in person, with a predetermined number of dates that we will not exceed no matter what. Does that make sense?

No, it doesn't make sense because the entire premise is ridiculous and makes no sense. No part of it. It's not how normal people, especially women, would think or behave. But if you just cut to the concept of what exactly it is you are supposedly trying to achieve - a few fake dates with her friends husband is suppose to help "train her" to be better on dates and somehow then in just a few "lessons" this will enable her to develop longer lasting relationships? It's so stupid I assumed it has to be made up by a 15 year old boy. But, you, your wife and her friend may well be this stupid. Who knows.

OK, I don't know any of you people and stumbled across this on my husband's computer. Frankly, the comments here are disgusting. Husband dear, you and I are going to have a long talk about privacy.

Don't do it dude. best possible scenario is a threesome, but that will eventually end bad. Worst scenario is this is just an excuse for your wife to go on her own date with some other guy and not feel bad about it. In fact, it's definitely the 2nd scenario.

I am the wife in question wrote:

OK, I don't know any of you people and stumbled across this on my husband's computer. Frankly, the comments here are disgusting. Husband dear, you and I are going to have a long talk about privacy.

Can you send some sexy selfies please.

Yours in Lust,

Disgusting LRC Commenter

HA man this reads like the set up of a bad sitcom.

You have a future in Hollywood. Maybe you can write for The Big Bang or whatever other lame sitcom falls out of TV execs b-hole.

This was a PG rated version of a Penthouse Forum story. Well done!

I sincerely well and truly hope and pray that you all have decided AGAINST this idea. If you are a nice, good, and respectful guy, there is undoubtedly a significant chance that your wife's bf would fall for you and it will create a situation ripe for a tragic divorce. Temptation is not something that happily married couples should "flirt" with.

Tell your wife that it is unimaginable to you to be able to even pretend to date another woman because you are so enthralled with her as the day you first fell in love with her. Tell her that you would only succeed in showing her friend how it feels to not be a first choice. Tell her you will not even pretend to be interested in other women. Say anything but ok, I will do it.

Introduce your wife's friend to Jamin!

For the first date, take her to an upscale seafood restaurant that is just up the street from a happening spot that places techno music.

Order a bottle of Rose.