I actually do agree with your post. You may or may not have been kidding, but I've seen this in most of my teammates, along with myself in relationships. I'm currently very happy with my girlfriend, but there have definitely been times lately where I feel like she has more power in the relationship than me. She's young, very progressive, and is big into pursuing her career because she believes the female has the right to be the main breadwinner for the house. At the same time, she has said she never felt this vulnerable before with how she feels about me. For the first time in her life she actually feels like part of her happiness depends on me. She is younger, and still has some serious emotional maturing to do. She is very bad about controlling what she says and does when she gets mad. How do I handle that?
OP- sorry about your situation. My advice would be to get into a solid career, make some cash, stabilize yourself, and find a pleasant girl who will treat you with respect and not take you for granted. You should do the same for her.