curious cat says:
"I do rather enjoy shagging American girls, especially the all American types that come to visit Europe. However, I'd be unlikely to ever marry one simply because they'd likely be ball busters."
What does the above mean?
curious cat says:
"I do rather enjoy shagging American girls, especially the all American types that come to visit Europe. However, I'd be unlikely to ever marry one simply because they'd likely be ball busters."
What does the above mean?
ike I said, I find this is most common in girls 19-24ish. Once women have actually been out in the real world for awhile they seem to learn, but I don't regularly meet these kind of women until we're talking about 30.
Except for the ones who never grow up, which are many.
Ballsack wrote:
curious cat says:
"I do rather enjoy shagging American girls, especially the all American types that come to visit Europe. However, I'd be unlikely to ever marry one simply because they'd likely be ball busters."
What does the above mean?
American women are whore-material
At what age will jamin start having realistic expectations for women?
mature man wrote:
Bop wrote:whenever their besties start having babies
Wrong. That's when they start having totally unrealistic expectations.
When a woman has been single with kids for a couple of years, she starts having reasonable expectations. However, those expectations aren't reasonable for her any longer.
Best post I've seen on here in a while...
doot doot wrote:
Mr. Practical wrote:Getting laid is not the issue. That's easy. The issue is finding a girl who actually appreciates you and doesn't immediately think she can do better. I've had girls literally tell me they won't settle for anything less than a guy who is world-class at something. Another girl told me a guy has to play one or more instruments, speak two or more languages, we world-traveled, a skilled rock-climber, and have at least a master's degree. Anything less was a definite no. Even when girls don't make such ridiculous statements, I almost always find that they don't understand that guys are humans too, just like them. They seem to be almost comically unaware of their own faults and weaknesses yet hypercritical and hyperjudgemental of males'.
Like I said, I find this is most common in girls 19-24ish. Once women have actually been out in the real world for awhile they seem to learn, but I don't regularly meet these kind of women until we're talking about 30.
None of those expectations are unreasonable so long as the woman has those experiences and merits to match.
I've met all kinds the last five or so years. But I have noticed a relatively frequent tendency for broke, vacuous, attractive women to demand some/many of the attributes you've described but aren't even close to being able to reciprocate. Like they're entitled to a prince.
I feel like it's a by-product of rampant social media narcissism. I don't even associate with social media divas anymore--- for dating material or in my closest circle of friends. People have ridiculous expectations of others. They inflate their own perceived value. And they simply cannot live in their own moment.
^^^, THIS! There are so many arrogant broads nowadays and most of them have absolutely nothing to be arrogant about. Broke, obese broads want a good looking guy that is going to take care of them. Social media has a lot to do with this, every time one of these broads post a picture on Face Book you have dozens of simps calling her a \"beautiful queen.\" Over the course of their 20s they realize they are not as special as they thought they were, then in their late 20s baby fever hits and they go from stuck up entitled princesses to throwing hail marys hoping any decent guy will give them the time of day, but by then they have put on weight, crows feet start appearing, and its game over for them. Its kinda sad really.
Women start having realistic expectations of men the moment they observe and smell their putrid socks.
Mr. Practical wrote:
opposite opinion wrote:I live in a college town, too. If anything, I'd say that the girls in the 18-25 age range have pretty low expectations. Guys with zero ambition or career prospects have no problem getting girls. Crappy chain restaurants are considered acceptable date locations. Showing up to class in sweatpants doesn't seem to turn girls off.
I can say with confidence that I would have never had a single date if I acted the way that the average college guy acts when I was a young professional living in NYC. But the guys around here act like bums and still get laid.
Getting laid is not the issue. That's easy.
Not for all of us, Chad.
Black Med Student wrote:
doot doot wrote:None of those expectations are unreasonable so long as the woman has those experiences and merits to match.
I've met all kinds the last five or so years. But I have noticed a relatively frequent tendency for broke, vacuous, attractive women to demand some/many of the attributes you've described but aren't even close to being able to reciprocate. Like they're entitled to a prince.
I feel like it's a by-product of rampant social media narcissism. I don't even associate with social media divas anymore--- for dating material or in my closest circle of friends. People have ridiculous expectations of others. They inflate their own perceived value. And they simply cannot live in their own moment.
^^^, THIS! There are so many arrogant broads nowadays and most of them have absolutely nothing to be arrogant about. Broke, obese broads want a good looking guy that is going to take care of them. Social media has a lot to do with this, every time one of these broads post a picture on Face Book you have dozens of simps calling her a "beautiful queen." Over the course of their 20s they realize they are not as special as they thought they were, then in their late 20s baby fever hits and they go from stuck up entitled princesses to throwing hail marys hoping any decent guy will give them the time of day, but by then they have put on weight, crows feet start appearing, and its game over for them. Its kinda sad really.
Correct
Mr. Practical wrote:
If ever. I live in a college town, so most all women here are 18-25, and what I find over and over is that women in this age range tend to be very idealistic and have standards impossible to meet. They think relationships are nonstop rollercoasters of fun and excitement and that the dude should always put entertaining them above everything else in his life. I haven't experienced this that much with older women I've dated (say 30 and above). At what age do women start to become more realistic? Mid 20s? Late 20s?
About the same time men stop being sexist.
When men start clipping they're nose hairs
doot doot wrote:
Mr. Practical wrote:Getting laid is not the issue. That's easy. The issue is finding a girl who actually appreciates you and doesn't immediately think she can do better. I've had girls literally tell me they won't settle for anything less than a guy who is world-class at something. Another girl told me a guy has to play one or more instruments, speak two or more languages, we world-traveled, a skilled rock-climber, and have at least a master's degree. Anything less was a definite no. Even when girls don't make such ridiculous statements, I almost always find that they don't understand that guys are humans too, just like them. They seem to be almost comically unaware of their own faults and weaknesses yet hypercritical and hyperjudgemental of males'.
Like I said, I find this is most common in girls 19-24ish. Once women have actually been out in the real world for awhile they seem to learn, but I don't regularly meet these kind of women until we're talking about 30.
None of those expectations are unreasonable so long as the woman has those experiences and merits to match.
I've met all kinds the last five or so years. But I have noticed a relatively frequent tendency for broke, vacuous, attractive women to demand some/many of the attributes you've described but aren't even close to being able to reciprocate. Like they're entitled to a prince.
I feel like it's a by-product of rampant social media narcissism. I don't even associate with social media divas anymore--- for dating material or in my closest circle of friends. People have ridiculous expectations of others. They inflate their own perceived value. And they simply cannot live in their own moment.
This is what I'm talking about. I'm an attractive guy, so I tend to date attractive women. They frequently seem to think that they are entitled to The Perfect Man even though they have virtually nothing to offer but their looks. I had one girl tell me she had a kind of shocking experience recently when a guy turned her down. That had never happened before to her and really shook her image of herself. Give me a break.
I don't like to talk about myself or my accomplishments, but I have done very well for myself and have been told a number of times that I am the most interesting person this person has ever met. And even with this, I find that pretty girl after pretty after pretty girl has this attitude that I should worship the ground she walks on and that I'm lucky to be in her company. Or they think a guy should have X, Y, and Z even though they do not. It's very off-putting.