OP - the very definition of a cuck.
OP - the very definition of a cuck.
1) no concerns about getting her pregnant
2) fun bag growth
3) why not?
So we both live within walking distance to the grocery store. I go several times a week to get fresh fruit and for the salad bar. So I kept seeing her walking there or in the store and just started exchanging pleasantries.
..a few weeks of that and I started seeing her belly grow and commented about the baby. I guess we became acquaintances.
..one time she was there and almost in tears. I didn't want to pry but asked her about it. Long story short I consoled her and she told me the whole story. Invited her over for tea (she lives about 4 blocks away from me).
So that's how it started. And by it, I mean we've only just been hanging out talking about whatever...
..hence the question on 'would you date....'
Pro: she obviously puts out.
Con: everything else.
Create a huge imaginary scenario of your life, fantastic job, lots of money , political connections, elite athletic past. Then slowly let out clues that you are lying , until she loses faith in all the world , the leaves you. This would be fun.. 🌠💰📈😪
Tea? Are you British.
Story is a bit out there. But my brother did this. She got pregnant with his baby as soon as she could and pressured him to adopt the other baby. Then when he was in Iraq she cheated on him, separated and demands child support. The kicker, she says he was abusive and refuses visitation.
Not saying this chick is whacko like this one. Only you know if it is worth a gamble. I'd stay friends and see where is goes.
Yeah some girls are wacko. Two reasons why the guy left her: 1) she's crazy 2) he's a deadbeat loser who gets a girl Pregnant then peaces out. I'd say enjoy a couple months of nutting inside her then gtfo yourself. You do not owe her anything. The other guy does though. His problem. But perhaps she's good and then you may as well stay with her and the kid, unless you'd prefer your own family with your own kids.
Do you think she needs a boyfriend right now? Its way too messed up a time for her. Why can't you just be a friend, have tea with her every now and again? Men can be just friends with women. but if you are looking at this as an opportunity for sex, just walk away, leave the poor girl alone and accept that you are a dirt bag.
Stand up guy wrote:
Do you think she needs a boyfriend right now? Its way too messed up a time for her. Why can't you just be a friend, have tea with her every now and again? Men can be just friends with women. but if you are looking at this as an opportunity for sex, just walk away, leave the poor girl alone and accept that you are a dirt bag.
What if the the OP fell in love with this girl?
What if the girl fell in love with the OP?
Why wouldn't she want a man she loves to be by her side?
Why are you so bitter?
OP, if you two fell in love, go for it and good luck.
make sure ya tie the knot first and fast.
pregnant women are big turn on .so not alone
Normally, I would say "no." But I met one that I most definitely would have dated. So....yeah.
you could go lion on 'em and consider prospective infanticide.
Guy, why all this talk about tea?
OP - tea sucks. And you shouldn't be feeding a pregnant lady tea. Caffeine ain't good for the baby.
Disregard if having tea is a euphamism for something.
A guy who says guy wrote:
Disregard if having tea is a euphamism for something.
He was having T. She was having D.
Bro I'm telling you, if this is not a troll, just don't do it. Once she has the kid and you're committed, you could be tied down for a while. You don't want to start hating this chick after a year together but then be stuck because you're now legally tied to the child. Just way to many risks for your own time, well being, and finances. Once you have a kid any freedom you might have had goes away fast.
This actually happened to a guy I know. He fell in love with a woman who was pregnant. Anyways he really loved her so he decided to raise the child as his own. A few years later he ended up having a biological child with the same woman. Now both kids are in their teens and doing well it seems. I would shake the guys hand because I respect what he did but it would be awkward. Anyways it's like chuck berry says.......You never can tell
No matter what happens you should take the opportunity to track the other guy down and kick him violently in the peas.
Lib Rules wrote:
jorter wrote:Would I date a pregnant woman...
If I was the dad: Absolutely. You're a piece of crap if you get someone pregnant and then ditch.
This is about as short-sighted as I have seen on this site. Surely you realize there are a myriad of circumstances that could have occurred.
You don't have to marry her but totally abandoning her and the child is immature, irresponsible and a sign of a lack of character.
Couple of things to consider. Is the father really a deadbeat, or just freaked out at the moment? The reason I ask, is if he is just freaked out and an all-around decent guy, there is a strong likelihood that you'll hang around, get attached to her, and even the baby (even before it's born) and then all of a sudden he comes back to his senses, they work things out and live happily ever after.
There are a couple of other cons, as others have mentioned, that she would fall in love with all the attention and support you're giving her now and then after you've fallen for her and grown attached to the baby, she kicks you to the curb. This becomes especially problematic, if it lasts long enough where you have a kid with her (as others have pointed out).
All the above being said, if you take it slow and carefully, are honest with your own feelings and hers, communicate with her from the beginning and things develop naturally, you could have a solid foundation for a life-long relationship. Just take it slow and don't be blinded by your initial feelings (or hers).