MeekHubby wrote:
Ok, spare me the jokes.
Wife's a nice person, but she's never been really fit or played sports and now and that she's getting older she's gaining like a pound a month each and every year. Classic pear shape. No medical issues.
I workout every day and watch diet, but she just doesn't care any more and it's an issue for me. I bought her a FitBit for Xmas and it's still in the box it came in.
Suggestions?
Is she depressed? Low thyroid? Sometimes it is a lot easier for women to pack on the pounds.
Also, your say "she doesn't care anymore." That is the problem. If she doesn't feel respected, valued, or invested in the relationship why should she care? Men often do not understand that women are turned on by romance and feeling appreciated. When there is a lack of sex going on, it is often because the man is not attending to the emotional needs of his wife, and men don't want to have sex when they feel treated poorly.
So, what are you doing for her lately? Maybe she has little interest in pleasing you because she doesn't feel valued.
Maybe do some things like: buy the groceries (but buy ALL healthy foods), cook meals for her (something healthy like a vegetable stirfry), make a nice fruit salad with her favorite fruits. Try to find some game or active hobby that you can do with her that she actually likes.